What do you wish you could tell people face to face but can’t

[Anonymous]

The reason I don't do anything for the PTA anymore is that for the first three years my kid attended this school, I volunteered regularly and was ignored by EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU. None of you bothered to learn my name or spend 90 seconds talking to me when I showed up to events or meetings. Even those of you who have kids in the same grade or in some cases the same class as mine! You only wanted to talk to one another and viewed me as a non-entity.

And this is why I never volunteer or give money, and probably same for others as well. The two school families we hang out with outside of school are not involved with the PTA either and had similar experiences.

You have done this to yourselves so please quit with the martyr act and the passive aggressive emails about how "everyone has to do their part" and you need volunteers for XYZ events you planned without any input from anyone else. I chaperoned a class trip last week and just bought pencils/markers/dry erase markers for the classroom because the teacher actually talks to me like a human being.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Those huge Fake eye lashes are fugly

And so are fake nails

+1. It looks like you can not prioritize money, and you not only look ridiculous, you look shallow. You also happen to look like a streetwalker.

I'd rather look like a streetwalker than a Howdy Doody such as yourself. Another example of DC women having ZERO style.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Those huge Fake eye lashes are fugly

And so are fake nails

+1. It looks like you can not prioritize money, and you not only look ridiculous, you look shallow. You also happen to look like a streetwalker.

You seem super angry about something that has zero impact on your life. You should really examine why that is.

[Anonymous]

my marriage is falling apart.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hate lazy people. Put your grocery cart back.

When I worked at a grocery store, there was a guy whose job, whose sole job at the store, was to round up carts all over the parking lot and bring them to right outside the store. Ever since then, I don't put my cart back because if everyone did that, that job wouldn't exist.

That's all nice and dandy if he can get around to it quickly enough before the cards sturt rolling down and damaging someone's car.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone can see your privates when you wear grey sweatpants.

Yes! Men in sweatpants are gross. No one wants to see your lumps.

[Anonymous]

I'm going to be polite and professional, but you are an arrogant, egotistical, unqualified and rude pathological liar and I hope one day your boss figures out what an entitled and incompetent fraud you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The reason I don't do anything for the PTA anymore is that for the first three years my kid attended this school, I volunteered regularly and was ignored by EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU. None of you bothered to learn my name or spend 90 seconds talking to me when I showed up to events or meetings. Even those of you who have kids in the same grade or in some cases the same class as mine! You only wanted to talk to one another and viewed me as a non-entity.

And this is why I never volunteer or give money, and probably same for others as well. The two school families we hang out with outside of school are not involved with the PTA either and had similar experiences.

You have done this to yourselves so please quit with the martyr act and the passive aggressive emails about how "everyone has to do their part" and you need volunteers for XYZ events you planned without any input from anyone else. I chaperoned a class trip last week and just bought pencils/markers/dry erase markers for the classroom because the teacher actually talks to me like a human being.

Hah I could have written this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have bad breath.

ooh incessantly offer gum and mints. Hopefully they get the hint. Chronic bad breath is disgusting. That's why masking was so great for awhile!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone can see your privates when you wear grey sweatpants.

This is well known, that's why it's gray sweatpants season.

Anonymous wrote:Yes! Men in sweatpants are gross.

No they are not.

No one wants to see your lumps.

Yes we do.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Stop with the substitutions in a restaurant. Stop with the extra napkins and straws. Use silverware and lift the damn glass.

This. You’re an adult and still haven’t mastered the art of drinking from a cup? And don’t say it’s for sanitary reasons. If you saw the dishwasher putting away the utensils at most restaurants, you would want a straw for your food too.

No, I don't like the feeling of ice hitting my teeth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate lazy people. Put your grocery cart back.

When I worked at a grocery store, there was a guy whose job, whose sole job at the store, was to round up carts all over the parking lot and bring them to right outside the store. Ever since then, I don't put my cart back because if everyone did that, that job wouldn't exist.

I hope you at least put your cart in the cart corral. You should not leave it in the parking lot as it can roll and hit a car. You need to put your cart either in the cart corral or back in the store. Not just randomly in the parking lot taking up a parking spot.

Seriously. The guy still needs to bring the carts in from the outside. That doesn't mean you need to make him run all over to grab them. Put it back in the corral.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate how many of my women friends can’t just sit down and relax. They are constantly picking up or wiping something down or straightening something or cleaning the kitchen.

It’s like they can’t stand to just sit with themselves. It’s pathological.

Sit down it’s fine if a tea cup sits in the sink until dinner, FFS.

I do this when my MIL came over. It's because I'd rather be washing dishes (or cleaning already clean counters) than talk to her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't really care if you let your kids have an iPhone or iPad or other tablet/device at the restaurant table (I'll judge you, but otherwise don't care because I don't have to live with the consequences of your actions when it comes to your kid) but for the love, GIVE THEM HEADPHONES OR TURN THE SOUND OFF.

They have headphones. What are the consequences?

What are the consequences of constantly allowing your child to be on screens during meals? If you can't figure that out on your own I'm not sure anything I say will matter to you so I'll pass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone can see your privates when you wear grey sweatpants.

This is well known, that's why it's gray sweatpants season.

Anonymous wrote:Yes! Men in sweatpants are gross.

No they are not.

No one wants to see your lumps.

Yes we do.

+1

How else do we know what you’re working with pre-hookup?