Paul Ryan went to Miami (OH). 'Nuff said. |
There's a far deeper pool of jerks who attended Harvard. And while I don't agree with his views, I'd be surprised if Paul is not extremely smart. Your logic is lacking. |
Yes it is. |
+1 And regardless of what you think of his politics, he never came off like a jerk at all. |
+1. Don't agree with his politics but he doesn't come off as a Bro type at all - at least, not the negative version of the bro. Is Yale an acceptable place to be away from Bro culture? Because Kavanaugh went to Yale and he definitely seems like he was the Bro type in college. |
I don't like your attitude but I do think that fit is super important. I'm reminded of the parent on here a few weeks ago whose son chose Cornell over Cal Tech (based on the Ivy brand). He is a super bookish, STEM focused, introverted, serious musician and he's now miserable. Trust me, my "bro" kid would be just as miserable at Cal Tech. Sure, there are all types at each school but it is overwhelmingly easier to find your way at a school that matches who you are. |
My daughter is considering Miami of Ohio and now I’m worried. |
She'll be fine. They have sororities for all types of chicks, and not all of the frats are full of stereotypical bro-types (not that there's anything wrong with that). |
This is 2023. Yale has changed. As have many other schools. |
Op, my 2 cents: your son's personality may mean he wants to head-off somewhere where he knows someone. One or two guys from his HS class, or guys who were ahead of him in school. I'd really research where guys like him, from his HS, go. Ask other parents from your HS, where they shared a friendship, activity. The data's there. Have a frank discussion with the HS guidance department. You won't need to look hard, won't need to look for a needle in a haystack. |
Really? the four people I know who went to Williams recently are not that type at all. Interesting. I am curious if some of this info is dated? |
There are some bros at Yale, on the teams and in the frats, but most of the kids seem to be stemmy nerds. |
+1 I'm looking at this thread to know which schools to avoid. |
Oh my. |
I have a very non-quirky girl who would also be much happier around boys who don’t fit the “bro” model. Most intelligent women fall in that category. |