Dartmouth and Princeton |
William and Mary??? I haven’t heard it described that way. More quirky LAC vibe. |
Harvard, Princeton, Dartmouth |
DDDDDDDartmouth???????? |
+1 Dartmouth has no place here lol. Yale and Columbia appear way snobbier. |
Anyone can go there? What?? |
Northeastern. |
A “massive hit” from what perspective though? Maybe to the people who rely on magazines and polls to delineate snob appeal — but the WASPs and people who value education for qualities beyond the t shirts and bumper stickers are still choosing the schools they /we always have. |
Of course Dartmouth belongs there. One of the oldest ivies with plenty of old money. |
Kenyon? Snob appeal? It's all pink-haired, theater kids, except for a few lacrosse players. No way. Not East Coast elite snobbery anway, not the way OP intended. |
I've generally assumed that Americans who send their kids to Swiss boarding school is a mix of (1) enhance language skills and (2) can't get into a comparable school in States. Am I wrong? |
Um, there are super wealthy Indians who are also old money and emit that WASP equivalent vibe. |
I"m the first PP who mentioned SMU. You know what else is at SMU? The scions of -old- Texas money. Multigenerational wealth. Yes, I am well aware that a holey sweater headband Mayflower gin-drinking NE Brahmin is not the same thing as a descendant of a Houston oil family that first cornered the Texas oil market in 1900 (and never let up). This group doesn't "need" the meritocratic degree from a Princeton to continue the family legacy and SMU is a pleasant,comfortable gathering spot until you assume your role in the company. |
I always find these conversations about wasps funny because they mythologize a group of people who haven't really existed in a very long time.
My family is almost 100 per cent wasp, as in founded this country wasp, as in fled religious persecution wasp, as in fought in every conflict from the Bacon rebellion (both sides) on. But we're not wasps at all. I was the first person in my family born east of the Mississippi in almost 200 years and I will inherit nothing. There is nothing. I'm not bragging, this isn't something to be proud of ashamed of. I'm bringing it up because there's a huge number of Americans just like me. Your DAR and your Dames women aren't coming from the people with summer palaces in Maine, or those who go sailing in the cape. They're coming from farm country. They're coming from factories. The WASP illusion is very real, but it's full of people who are about as waspy as Ralph Lauren. Nothing wrong with that--but my point is, the "snob" appeal factor comes more from trying to keep up the appearance of wasp gentility than any bloodline. I suspect this kind of class thing is nothing new. There's always been someone getting their family name on a crest or a tartan, becoming the ruling caste by adopting its mannerisms. |
Williams |