It is what you are saying though, given your tiresome focus on the tucking shirts rule. As an ATS parent that’s all I hear about from ATS haters as if that’s the most important thing about the entire school. Most ats parents don’t care either way about the tucking shirts rule. I find the rule silly but it’s not a hill I am gonna die on because you know what? It’s just a dress code. What I care about, and what I think every parent should care about is high behavioral and academic standards. You are not gonna find a student throwing stuff in the middle of class at ATS. It simply doesn’t happen. Students know from day 1 that they have to show respect for their teachers and their classmates. That is a value that I want to instill in my kids and I believe everyone should want to instill in their kids. There are no excuses for bad behavior at ATS. At the same time the teachers are fun, loving and love their jobs. You don’t have high turnover at ATS because teachers are respected by everyone and are backed up by administration when it comes to unruly behavior. Kids come to ATS to learn as it should be and parents, admin and teachers all work together to make sure that is happening. As for embracing weirdness. ATS is probably more diverse than the North Arlington schools many parents on DCUM send their kids to. More than 80 different countries are represented in school. Only 30% or 40% of the kids are white (forgot which percentage) and we have a high number of ESL students. Good for your kids. Happy they graduated from top colleges. Given the fact that there are many schools in the country I don’t think any parent in ats is under the illusion that only students who go to an ATS like school will go to a top college. Obviously that’s not the case and obviously ATS is not a ticket to s top college. I’m sure that many ATS students go to mediocre colleges. I obviously would be thrilled if my kids end up in a top college but that’s not really my goal. Given the learning standards in colleges these days, I’m not sure a top college is even my priority. My priority is kids who hold themselves to high standards, behaviorally and academically. |
Well, hopefully the ATS kids will be better dressed. Although, there is that blip of middle school which could change that. |
So HB instead of ATS, then. |
I clicked on this thread because I sometimes have FOMO WRT not sending my kids to ATS. Nothing I've read here makes me question my decision. |
Good for you. We wish we would have gotten in … glade some people are happy with their neighborhood schools. |
This is not true. APS does equal advertising for all choice programs. The PTA might work a bit harder to let families know about certain programs, but APS treats them equally. |
I think most parents' goal in middle school goal is hygiene, not fashion ![]() ::cue some ATS parent announcing that all ATS graduates stay ahead of puberty BO because high standards:: |
Sorry this is true, it was part of the literature handed out about how important 50/50 was and how moving it would kill it. |
Yep!!!! Can't agree more. We are not at ATS but have friends with kiddos there who are the same age. It's drastic the difference between them (yes kids are different but it really comes out with their reading). Our kids were "reading" by guessing. Using the pictures for everything. We have had to pay out of pocket for a tutor from 1st to 4th grade to help correct this and finally get our DC on grade level reading. This only happened because we can afford the tutor. Not everyone can and I don't think anyone should have to. APS needs to step things up. |
What are you talking about? Did you get a random flyer one day from the group opposing the move of Esceula Key and you have somehow made up this story about APS doing special outreach to Hispanic families? Huh? I know that APS treats all choice schools equally in "adverstising" because I've had that conversation with people who work at APS. |
I doubt that’s what PP meant. I’m sure it’s about looking clean and presentable which is part of hygiene. |
We’re paying for reading tutors now and I can’t believe we spend this much to live in Arlington and have to pay for reading tutors. I wish we had considered ATS. |
The most important thing is you figured it out early and that your kids are getting the help they need. I would write to the school board, Dr Duran, the ELA Department, and perhaps even the principal of your school. You should explain what you are doing and how much you are paying to improve your children’s reading skills. APS should know that the improvements that some kids are making in reading are the result of their parents paying for tutors and not because of APS. |
Thanks for that suggestion. It seems like it's really common for APS parents to need reading tutors and I've been shocked that the problem is so widespread with or without the pandemic. I just assumed that school would teach my kid to read. We read at home and go to the library and have too many books, but never expected that I would need to pay someone to teach my kid to read. We'll be trying for the ATS lottery for our second kid. |
We are in the same boat with attempting to get our second in at ATS. I don't even care that it would mean two different drop-off locations and two different pickups. With the amount of time and money we put in to continue paying for supplemental help for our 5th grader, it would be worth it! |