+1 True, because the posters who claim "world class (whatever)" about DC have actually rarely resided in other places, sadly. |
I am from the Midwest and have relatives in nearly every Midwestern state. I spent my first 30 years in the Midwest and then 18 in the DC area before moving back to my hometown. I am sure that I am more qualified to make a comparison as almost anyone. The housing stock, parks, and neighborhoods in the Midwest are far superior to the analogous areas in DC. I was actually shocked at how poor the housing stock was when I first moved to DC. Everyone raves about Arlington, but it honestly by appearance would only be a middle of the road suburb in my hometown. Call me “silly” if that’s all you’ve got. |
You snuck in “analogous areas” when the first comparison was simply DC vs all of flyover country. That’s the comparison being made and what I objected to, but work yourself into a frenzy if you like. |
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Even McLean or Chevy Chase, the two most expensive suburbs in the DC area, are going to be a lot more relaxed than NW or NYC. City living is just way more competitive overall, at least for families with kids. If you live in NW you’ll be spending half your time angling for privates or explaining why you went ahead and sent your kid to Jackson-Reed or SWW. In the nicer suburbs, you have more space and privacy, people will assume you belong if you can live, and no one really cares whether you send your kids to good publics or good privates.
I get that the aesthetics of the DC suburbs aren’t on par with a lot of older suburbs in other areas, but the houses are still nice and the convenience is just as great if not greater, plus you’re not paying the exorbitant taxes that you might be paying in, say, a Larchmont or Scarsdale. |
Whatever, split hairs if it makes you feel better. |
Not from the Midwest, but yes. No one with our income would live in a place that looks like Arlington in our home city. |
+100%. I’ve grown to believe that many, many DMVers are genuinely delusional. The way they look down on the rest of the country is genuinely puzzling. |
The NoVa housing stock, in particular, is terrible. So much of it was thrown up quickly post WW2, and it very much has a “thrown together” feel about. There are nice pockets here and there, but let’s stop pretending the area is what we all fantasized about in our “when I grow up” days. |
| I live in Bethesda in Edgemoor. Benefits are: nice yard for my dogs and kids. Friendly neighborhood. A little swim club that’s easy to walk to. Good public schools. Steps from down town coffee shops, restaurants, stores. 8 minute walk to the redline route of the metro that takes me right downtown. Walk to the grocery store, easy access to the beltway for popping out of town. Little crime, feels safe. Very clean. 10 minute drive to my job. I used to be in an apt down town that I also loved but moving out here with kids has been amazing. You can also look at some great neighborhoods in NW but everything I’m mentioning is expensive. Also take a look at Takoma Park. It’s a little groovy but people love it. |
And I lived in DC for over 15 years - different places like Georgetown, Kalorama, City Center - and then moved to Arlington (CC Hills). I love it here and will never live anywhere else. I was tired of the constant crime, restaurants that people raved about but in reality were not that good, and no friendly neighbors. I actually love the food scene in NoVa - lots of great ethnic restaurants, easy parking, accessible to other parts of the city, and no crime. And our neighbors are amazing. It's a real community here. I think it's all about personal preference. |
| I lived in NYC and now I live in Chevy Chase. We walk everywhere here: preschool, ballet, music, park, restaurants, coffee, grocery and shops. |
Wait, why are we talking about other global capital cities now? I’ve been all over Europe and a few places in Asia and never said DC was better. I’m just saying so you actually want to live in Bloomfield, MI? DC is a large city and has a lot going on. Give me any city (NY, SF, Chicago etc) and I’d rather live in those areas than in a small town. That’s just me. |
People on DCUM regularly, outwardly look down on Chicago, so it’s funny you mention that. Which is hilarious from an international perspective because DC is several notches below Chicago in terms of awareness, interest, and cultural importance. |
Look at Bethesda/ Chevy Chase, OP. I am talking 20816 and 20815 zip codes. Check them out. Schools are good and not far from downtown DC or downtown Bethesda. |
DP but yeah I don’t get it. I’d rather drive out a bit further out like Loudoun to buy a house than a tiny old shack like the ones in Arlington. I don’t understand the appeal at all. |