She shouldn't be after a day of doing nothing but walking at the gym for an hour a day she should be chock full of energy for hanky panky time. |
This is hilarious. This is the equivalent of going into the hospital where my husband works and saying, I pack half the lunches, clean my own desk, and do half of the taking out the trash in the office, and go to a meeting every day. And then claiming I deserve credit for doing half his job. So basically, your wife has decided to do a positive thing for her health and start going to the gym, and your response is to call her lazy because she hasn’t achieved a level of fitness you deem worthy. And you are taking the credit for all the home and parenting responsibilities and dismissing her efforts. Lucky gal. |
Is that parenting to you??? I play games with them, talk to them, take them to friends' houses, help them with homework, remind them to do their chores, teach them to do things, and help them emotionally regulate. I also cook for them (they eat things besides sandwiches and ramen), I clean their sheets and towels, etc. yes a 10-year old can keep themselves alive but it's pretty neglectful on the part of a parent to expect them to do that. |
NOTHING not ONE THING in his post suggests ADHD. She is lazy. |
I agree. |
You do know that while the 10yo is in school, she could clean the house and go to the gym right? |
+1 Some parents do bare minimum, and it shows. Sorry, OP. I know the type - and it is gross. I feel bad for you, seriously. |
Is the 10yo currently in school? |
I'm sure she can't wait to have sex with the guy who demands to know what specific exercises she is doing at the gym |
You know there is no school in the summer, right? |
Haven’t read all the replies but thank you for writing this. I needed to hear this today. |
Such a weird criticism. Not everyone can jog continuously for 30 min, even active people. I can ride my bike for several hours, but have a hard time jogging for 30 min. It's just not for everyone. I think it's awesome that she's getting herself to the gym to walk/jog, and with more encouragement, she may push herself to do more. If she starts to feel great about herself, then maybe she'll pick up in the areas that you are griping about. |
Or is it summer? |
It really was such a thoughtful response, I hope the OP reads and considers the content. I bet the poster is a great coach/trainer! |
Thank you so much for this post. I have tears in my eyes. So easy to label people as lazy and messy without knowing anything of their personal struggles |