If you don't have a 15 year mortgage, you're living beyond your means?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:OP’s other troll thread didn’t get any traction so she’s back at it 🙏


It’s a guy. No self respecting woman writes like this


OP probably left long ago. This thread has devolved into an unsuccessful battle of the wits. Probably a bunch of SAHMs and D.C. Big Law professionals furrowing their brows and debating in vain with a rising junior at TJ. How embarrassing must it be to repeatedly lose ground to a barrage of retorts being expertly delivered by a teenager?!?
Anonymous
It is all about balance. people make different choices about their money - spend in one area, save in another. No one has everything.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP’s other troll thread didn’t get any traction so she’s back at it 🙏


It’s a guy. No self respecting woman writes like this


OP probably left long ago. This thread has devolved into an unsuccessful battle of the wits. Probably a bunch of SAHMs and D.C. Big Law professionals furrowing their brows and debating in vain with a rising junior at TJ. How embarrassing must it be to repeatedly lose ground to a barrage of retorts being expertly delivered by a teenager?!?


Say what? Retorts bring expertly delivered? LOL. Sure Jan.
Anonymous
We refinanced to a 2.875% 30 year conforming mortgage during the first year of the pandemic. It's still a great decision because there are very few areas where we can get that kind of leverage and invest the rest in the stock market. Oh and we have a PITI ~$3K and nearly $1 million in home equity ($1.5 million home). With inflation where it is, having low cost, long term fixed debt is a great "investment". Right now, I can invest our cash in a high earning account! It has nothing to do with living beyond our means. It's the equivalent of shorting Treasuries.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:we have a 15 year and Ikea furniture - what does that make us?


+1 And have 10year old + Toyotas and like to camp.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We refinanced to a 2.875% 30 year conforming mortgage during the first year of the pandemic. It's still a great decision because there are very few areas where we can get that kind of leverage and invest the rest in the stock market. Oh and we have a PITI ~$3K and nearly $1 million in home equity ($1.5 million home). With inflation where it is, having low cost, long term fixed debt is a great "investment". Right now, I can invest our cash in a high earning account! It has nothing to do with living beyond our means. It's the equivalent of shorting Treasuries.


I’m one that is absolutely in favor of the 15 year route. That being said, well played…assuming you’re being truthful. I refinanced with a cash-out refinance mortgage from a 15 year to a 30 year with the sole objective of having money to invest in growth equities post-COVID crash. My monthly payment didn’t change, but I walked away with more than $1M in cash that I turned around and invested in the market a few months back. Portfolio is already up from $1M to $1.7M.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:we have a 15 year and Ikea furniture - what does that make us?


We do too. And to blow OP’s mind even further, in addition to our 15-year mortgage and IKEA furniture, we drive a BMW and fly in first class.


+1
AND Our 15 year old Ikea bookshelf is between to our Chesterfield imported from one of the finest furniture shops in Chester, England and a 16th century inherited armoire!

OP, you're a bit judgy...


+2 Ikea furniture is better engineered than BMWs.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:We refinanced to a 2.875% 30 year conforming mortgage during the first year of the pandemic. It's still a great decision because there are very few areas where we can get that kind of leverage and invest the rest in the stock market. Oh and we have a PITI ~$3K and nearly $1 million in home equity ($1.5 million home). With inflation where it is, having low cost, long term fixed debt is a great "investment". Right now, I can invest our cash in a high earning account! It has nothing to do with living beyond our means. It's the equivalent of shorting Treasuries.


I’m one that is absolutely in favor of the 15 year route. That being said, well played…assuming you’re being truthful. I refinanced with a cash-out refinance mortgage from a 15 year to a 30 year with the sole objective of having money to invest in growth equities post-COVID crash. My monthly payment didn’t change, but I walked away with more than $1M in cash that I turned around and invested in the market a few months back. Portfolio is already up from $1M to $1.7M.


I'm the PP. I think a 15 year is fine but it reduces your flexibility and only provided 40-50 bps of interest rate savings relative to a 30-year (at least at the time I was considering a refi). For some, a 15-year is a good way to create forced savings if you lack discipline elsewhere in your financial budget. While I could save a little on interest, I figured having the flexibility to accelerate the paydown on a 30-year (to make it a 15) was better optionality. However, since inflation spiked, I've stopped all prepayments. I am happy to make my minimum fixed payment each month and if inflation continues at an elevated rate, it will look better and better with time That's our only debt and with a PITI of ~$3K, it's lower than we'd ever get for an equivalent apartment in our area of Montgomery County.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We refinanced to a 2.875% 30 year conforming mortgage during the first year of the pandemic. It's still a great decision because there are very few areas where we can get that kind of leverage and invest the rest in the stock market. Oh and we have a PITI ~$3K and nearly $1 million in home equity ($1.5 million home). With inflation where it is, having low cost, long term fixed debt is a great "investment". Right now, I can invest our cash in a high earning account! It has nothing to do with living beyond our means. It's the equivalent of shorting Treasuries.


I’m one that is absolutely in favor of the 15 year route. That being said, well played…assuming you’re being truthful. I refinanced with a cash-out refinance mortgage from a 15 year to a 30 year with the sole objective of having money to invest in growth equities post-COVID crash. My monthly payment didn’t change, but I walked away with more than $1M in cash that I turned around and invested in the market a few months back. Portfolio is already up from $1M to $1.7M.


I'm the PP. I think a 15 year is fine but it reduces your flexibility and only provided 40-50 bps of interest rate savings relative to a 30-year (at least at the time I was considering a refi). For some, a 15-year is a good way to create forced savings if you lack discipline elsewhere in your financial budget. While I could save a little on interest, I figured having the flexibility to accelerate the paydown on a 30-year (to make it a 15) was better optionality. However, since inflation spiked, I've stopped all prepayments. I am happy to make my minimum fixed payment each month and if inflation continues at an elevated rate, it will look better and better with time That's our only debt and with a PITI of ~$3K, it's lower than we'd ever get for an equivalent apartment in our area of Montgomery County.


Our 15 year payment was lower than the 30 we originally had when we refinanced as the interest rate was lower. We always pay extra to principal. Cannot wait to pay it off.
Anonymous
Wealthy people use other people's money to gain more wealth.
Anonymous
We got a 15 year mortgage when we realized that we only wanted to work for another 15 years (retire at 57) and didn't want a mortgage in retirement.

Sometimes it's about the money, but sometimes it's about the peace of mind. Live by your priorities and values.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We refinanced to a 2.875% 30 year conforming mortgage during the first year of the pandemic. It's still a great decision because there are very few areas where we can get that kind of leverage and invest the rest in the stock market. Oh and we have a PITI ~$3K and nearly $1 million in home equity ($1.5 million home). With inflation where it is, having low cost, long term fixed debt is a great "investment". Right now, I can invest our cash in a high earning account! It has nothing to do with living beyond our means. It's the equivalent of shorting Treasuries.


I’m one that is absolutely in favor of the 15 year route. That being said, well played…assuming you’re being truthful. I refinanced with a cash-out refinance mortgage from a 15 year to a 30 year with the sole objective of having money to invest in growth equities post-COVID crash. My monthly payment didn’t change, but I walked away with more than $1M in cash that I turned around and invested in the market a few months back. Portfolio is already up from $1M to $1.7M.


I'm the PP. I think a 15 year is fine but it reduces your flexibility and only provided 40-50 bps of interest rate savings relative to a 30-year (at least at the time I was considering a refi). For some, a 15-year is a good way to create forced savings if you lack discipline elsewhere in your financial budget. While I could save a little on interest, I figured having the flexibility to accelerate the paydown on a 30-year (to make it a 15) was better optionality. However, since inflation spiked, I've stopped all prepayments. I am happy to make my minimum fixed payment each month and if inflation continues at an elevated rate, it will look better and better with time That's our only debt and with a PITI of ~$3K, it's lower than we'd ever get for an equivalent apartment in our area of Montgomery County.


Our 15 year payment was lower than the 30 we originally had when we refinanced as the interest rate was lower. We always pay extra to principal. Cannot wait to pay it off.


Why? If it's a good rate, you're better served saving the excess cash and using it to invest in the market long term. For us, paying a 2.875% interest rate that is also tax deductible is much lower than the long-term return on other investments. I get that there is a psychology benefit to being completely debt free. However, "good" debt with modest leverage can actually enhance your returns.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We refinanced to a 2.875% 30 year conforming mortgage during the first year of the pandemic. It's still a great decision because there are very few areas where we can get that kind of leverage and invest the rest in the stock market. Oh and we have a PITI ~$3K and nearly $1 million in home equity ($1.5 million home). With inflation where it is, having low cost, long term fixed debt is a great "investment". Right now, I can invest our cash in a high earning account! It has nothing to do with living beyond our means. It's the equivalent of shorting Treasuries.


I’m one that is absolutely in favor of the 15 year route. That being said, well played…assuming you’re being truthful. I refinanced with a cash-out refinance mortgage from a 15 year to a 30 year with the sole objective of having money to invest in growth equities post-COVID crash. My monthly payment didn’t change, but I walked away with more than $1M in cash that I turned around and invested in the market a few months back. Portfolio is already up from $1M to $1.7M.


I'm the PP. I think a 15 year is fine but it reduces your flexibility and only provided 40-50 bps of interest rate savings relative to a 30-year (at least at the time I was considering a refi). For some, a 15-year is a good way to create forced savings if you lack discipline elsewhere in your financial budget. While I could save a little on interest, I figured having the flexibility to accelerate the paydown on a 30-year (to make it a 15) was better optionality. However, since inflation spiked, I've stopped all prepayments. I am happy to make my minimum fixed payment each month and if inflation continues at an elevated rate, it will look better and better with time That's our only debt and with a PITI of ~$3K, it's lower than we'd ever get for an equivalent apartment in our area of Montgomery County.


Our 15 year payment was lower than the 30 we originally had when we refinanced as the interest rate was lower. We always pay extra to principal. Cannot wait to pay it off.


Why? If it's a good rate, you're better served saving the excess cash and using it to invest in the market long term. For us, paying a 2.875% interest rate that is also tax deductible is much lower than the long-term return on other investments. I get that there is a psychology benefit to being completely debt free. However, "good" debt with modest leverage can actually enhance your returns.


Everyone knows that what you’re saying is true…in theory. But let’s look at the actual reality.

Let’s assume Stock Market Return = 8% (Compounding Monthly)

Person A:
$500K 15 year 2.5% = $3333 / month
Total Mortgage Interest Paid = $100,146
Monthly Stock Market Contribution (Years 1-15): $0
Total Value at Year 30 = $0
Monthly Stock Market Contribution (Years 16-30): $3,333
Total Value at Year 30 = $1,153,345
Person A NW in Year 30 = $1,053,199 + Home Value

Person B:
$500K 30 year 2.5% = $1975 / month
Total Mortgage Interest Paid = $211,253
Monthly Stock Market Contribution (Years 1-30): $3,333 - $1,975 = $1,358
Total Value at Year 30 = $2,023,908
Person B NW in Year 30 = $1,812,655 + Home Value

At the end of 30 years both Person A and Person B own their homes outright. However, Person A that chose a 15 year mortgage has $759,456 less net worth than Person B who chose a 30 year mortgage. They both invested monthly mortgage savings in the stock market, but Person B was able to accumulate much more thanks to 30 years of interest compounding vs. 15…even with less contributed per month.

Everyone with a 15 year mortgage knows this and they’ve taken this more conservative route because they’re already investing 20-40% of their income into the stock market and are seeking diversification through home ownership. Problem is we’re really dealing with a comparison to Person C. This is a person trying to compete with Person A, trying to keep up with Joneses, as it were. Instead of pushing the full $1,358 / month in the stock market, Person C is dumping another $500 / month into car payments, another $300 / month into dining out, another $200 / month into a home cleaning service, and another $200 / month into a vacation fund. They’re then left with a paltry $158 more to invest per month and here’s how that plays out:

Person C:
$500K 30 year 2.5% = $1975 / month
Total Mortgage Interest Paid = $211,253
Monthly Stock Market Contribution (Years 1-30): $3,333 - $1,975 - $1,200 = $158
Total Value at Year 30 = $235,477
Person C NW in Year 30 = $24,224 + Home Value

Not nearly the same picture as before, is it? In reality – and as substantiated by HHI affordability data from mortgage applications in the DMV over the past three years – almost all 30 year applicants are like Person C. So, yeah, pat yourself on the back for opening up some financial flexibility until you realize you’ve flexed your way into spending most of it to maintain pace with Person A, costing you more than $1M in lost net worth over 30 years.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Not nearly the same picture as before, is it? In reality – and as substantiated by HHI affordability data from mortgage applications in the DMV over the past three years – almost all 30 year applicants are like Person C. So, yeah, pat yourself on the back for opening up some financial flexibility until you realize you’ve flexed your way into spending most of it to maintain pace with Person A, costing you more than $1M in lost net worth over 30 years.


This is DCUM, though, so everyone here professes to be in the top 0.5%. We’re all Person B, all raking in a 7 figure HHI, all sitting on an 8 figure net worth, and all driving 20 year old Toyota Camrys and Honda Pilots.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Not nearly the same picture as before, is it? In reality – and as substantiated by HHI affordability data from mortgage applications in the DMV over the past three years – almost all 30 year applicants are like Person C. So, yeah, pat yourself on the back for opening up some financial flexibility until you realize you’ve flexed your way into spending most of it to maintain pace with Person A, costing you more than $1M in lost net worth over 30 years.


This is DCUM, though, so everyone here professes to be in the top 0.5%. We’re all Person B, all raking in a 7 figure HHI, all sitting on an 8 figure net worth, and all driving 20 year old Toyota Camrys and Honda Pilots.


And for those of you wondering about an interesting hybrid scenario, you could be a Person E that invests $849 of mortgage savings per month for 30 years. Do the math and you’ll discover that this amount compounds to the exact same net worth as Person A who went with a 15 year. This gives Person E the same exact NW, but the flexibility of having an additional $509 / month to spend on household goods and services. A very clever balance of you need an extra $500 / month but don’t want to sacrifice your final NW.
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