I’ve had three kids in MCPS from K on. Never an incident of a five year old running off property. And yes, I think 2-3 staffers (aka teachers and paras) should absolutely be able to watch their class (in K) and ensure no child is wandering off for the very reason that it’s their JOB. |
DC just graduated from Wheaton's ENGR program and is attending a T10 ENGR program in the fall. It was a lot of work but helped them grow so much. |
I think we see this more in K because that's when kids are being identified as needing different kinds of support are working their way through the system. If they came out of HeadStart or PEP, they might already be flagged as needing an aide or a different kind of placement, but if they arrived on day one of kindergarten with no prior interaction with the school system, it can take a while to plug in the right number/type of supports. If the parents don't want those supports, the situation gets even harder. |
DCUM maxim: what works for my kid works for everyone's kid! And its corollary: what doesn't work for my kid doesn't work for anyone's kid! |
PSA: Parents at East Silver Spring ES are totally ok with kindergartners being so unsupervised that they wander off campus and want you to think it's totally normal. Also, PSA: If your school can't keep their youngest kids on campus, you're in trouble. |
I'll agree this is an unfortunate isolated incident but pales to the systemic problems at schools like the W's where kids are running around in black face or handing out n*ward cards. |
I think it's more like this. Parents at East Silver Spring ES are aware that this child had eloped multiple times already and each time was followed by an aide or the assistant principal herself. That happened again here. Every single ESS parent would also tell you that the police officers' behavior was sickening, and that the AP's failure to step in was outrageous. However, the child was not unsupervised. He didn't "sneak away." He eloped, the AP followed, and called the police becuase that's protocol. The fact that the responding officers were abusive monsters was just bad luck. I'd love to know how MCPS writ large deals with these sorts of things moving forward. What bystander training are they offering administrators for dealing with bad cops? What are they telling principals and APs to do when the police are behaving badly on school grounds? What if the parents are present and supportive of the way the police are behaving? What are the dynamics of stepping in as a white person when the cops and the parents are all Black and seemingly on one page about the "punishment?" This isn't about one bad school or one bad administrator. It's about a system in which parents can block appropriate placements, where bad cops are left to roam the streets unimpeded, where administrators don't know how to advocate for the kids in their care when the bad actor is a police officer, and where young and inexperienced white administrators are given charge of global majority schools. |
Thank you, PP. Very well said. |
I honestly cannot believe people watched that video and thought the mom was in the right. She was disgusting herself. This kid was failed by the school, the police, AND his mom. |
There is a well documented pattern of racially motivated hate incidents at the W's. Kids in black face or the n*word cards were two of many that have been discussed on these boards in recent years. I'm really shocked the administration hasn't done more to address this hostile environment. I'm guessing it stems from the fact that these schools are so segregated. |
It's well documented that many W parents suffer from Blair envy. |
Where are you getting that from? Nobody said the mom was in the right. |
These incidents aren't limited to just one area and do happen everywhere despite what some posters like to pretend. |
Do parents envy the stabbings or the murder? 2021: Student Charged With Attempted Murder in Blair High School Stabbing https://www.mymcmedia.org/student-charged-with-attempted-murder-in-blair-high-school-stabbing/ 2022: Montgomery Blair High School, went into lockdown after one student was stabbed by another student in the school’s Colesville-side parking lot https://www.kristinmink.com/post/statement-on-stabbing-at-mbhs |
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^^ or the missing 14-year-old girl?
https://www.newsbreak.com/news/2559956257192/concern-for-missing-blair-high-school-student |