That would be great! |
That’s an interesting perspective. I have had amazing teachers for my many kids with the exception of one classroom. The specials teachers are fantastic. Our family has been there a long time, but we haven’t had a primary kid in a while so I wouldn’t know if this is the case in primary. |
Charters can’t compete and will continue to see teachers leave. Especially with DCPS, ARlington, Montgomery County and Alexandria paying significantly more and offering better benefits. I work in one of those districts and it’s amazing how much support we get for behavior/ social emotional needs. We have an entire team—two counselors, an social worker, a psychologist and support from two community programs to support teachers. My kids highly sought after charter certainly doesn’t have that level of support and it leaves teachers feeling overwhelmed and unsupported. |
This is not correct. It's not about numbers. It's unfortunately too easy for just one or two kids to disrupt a classroom if there is not behavioral support for the kids who need it. With adequate support even a classroom of 100% "needy" kids can function well at the elementary level. |
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For the record, the bullying wasn't just "I hate you; you're ugly" or a shove here and there. It was brutal: kicking, punching, shoving down to the ground, slamming her head into playground equipment and more. And, of course, there was plenty of the "I hate you; you're ugly" garbage. For the first three months of school it was multiple times each day. It's pretty much under control at this point. But that's how our year started. The teacher turnover has been nonstop. The parents have banded together out of necessity, and we never receive responses from the ED or board of directors. It is a clear demonstration of how much disrespect MV' leadership has for parents, again because our children are disposable. Once we leave, someone else will happily jump in to take our kid's place. Really just rotten.
Also, I'm pretty flattered that some of you think I'm a mom (referring to "her"). Must be the result of good writing discipline provided by my good, pre-common core public school education. But I'm a feminist dad with a mission of raising a strong daughter. |
Where's the apologist who was so vocal earlier that this was clearly another situation where white people were overreacting? I assume she's cool with physical violence because it is some sort of cultural difference that only the super woke can understand. I hope she comes back to inform the OP dad about why he's a racist for not wanting his daughter assaulted. |
This tired old line is played out. You and your kind have been claiming this for years. Teaching in the pandemic has been a huge challenge for all teachers in all environments. Trying to control for public vs private vs charter using actual data from the last few years is a useless exercise. And you don't have data! You have conjecture and union talking points. |
I know several families that chose Garrison and Seaton over mv. But there are families who could have gotten into those places that choose mv. The real question is who leaves mv and what is the real reason. One family we know left because of general chaos. The other plans to move ib for oyster and have tons of money. The other question is why do people stay. The answer is often middle school. |
this is really crazy, I'm so sorry that your daughter experienced this trauma. Would you be willing to start talking to the local press? Popville, the DC Line or even the Post? |
I do not expect you or anyone else to understand what it's like to walk in anyone else's shoes. I'm glad your experience is a positive one. But trust, your not knowing more than the "vague" details of what our child has endured, does not make you an expert here. And it doesn't in any way make what she experienced acceptable. Just don't pass what we've experienced with the incessant physically and verbally abusive behavior as overreactive in any way. You should love your child to the best of your abilities, and be thankful your child can roll with the punches. I'm not raising a girl to accept that - because unacceptable, violent behavior should be corrected. It should be corrected by a child's parents and the school in which the child is entrusted daily. What you categorize as misguided (and unlikely?) is ensuring our child has training to defend herself when someone intentionally attempts to inflict pain and belittlement on her, because the abuse was happening multiple times everyday without protection from the adults - who have been too under-resourced to address the situation. You may be a family contented with the cavalier "boys will be boys" attitude of a previous century. We are not. But the severe behavioral problems were merely the first three months of the year. The rest has been dominated by teacher turnover. And the effects of it can't just be swept under the rug simply because your child is excelling. The truth is that many, many others are not. Parents are enrolling their kids in tutoring because the Lord of the Flies daycare that is the MV because their kids are not thriving in the chaos. I invite you to write your truth. Just don't be so doubtful of what others are going through. Because it is true and it exists in larger numbers than you are giving credit. To suggest that those who don't share your same point of view are a confused anomaly only makes you seem very short-sighted, uncaring and out of sync with the reality around you. |
| I’m so so sorry to hear about what your child has been going though op. That is inexcusable and horrific. One of my kids has experienced bullying but this was oyster adams, in middle school. It never got to be violent aside from shoving, but it has been extremely concerning and has greatly affected their self esteem and mood. The school has done nothing about it, though there’s a lot of talk that they take these things seriously.I hope you will do everything you can to move your daughter. In our case we are hoping to buy a new house and send our kid to a new middle school. |
I’m the Bruce Monroe poster. In DC’s first grade class, about half of the English dominant kids are out of bounds. We all chose BMPV over MV since both campuses are going all the way through their kindergarten and higher waitlists. And chose BMPV for the Spanish specifically. I don’t know, but I’d guess Powell is similar. There are MV families that are IB for BMPV, but all the families I know of have an older kid that still has the DCI guarantee. And plenty of older siblings to my child’s friends in 3-4th grade. Don’t know any fifth grade siblings, but that could be because they’re at Basis/Latin or just the way it’s worked out. |
+1000 That's well said. I stand by my prior post that accused them of straight up victim blaming and suggesting that if it didn't happen to their kid then it didn't happen. And I was labeled a racist for saying so. (Can't help but notice the woman who thought being against bullying was racist has put her keyboard down now.) |
You are the Bruce Monroe booster. Do you know how many kids are below grade in Bruce Monroe? A lot. Ask me how I know. We left by second grade and most of the families that we knew left too. The people that stay know that they can move at any time if the school doesn’t work for them (and they move by third grade). There are tons of people from Bruce Monroe at charters including MV, DCB, CMI. You got Your OOB spot because the IB families didn’t want it. |
NP: We are at another charter that has similar problems as MV in terms of discipline and administration. It drives me nuts when parents--who are clearly aware of the issues--don't speak up or seem at all concerned about these issues just because the issues are not directly impacting their children. Do you not see the irony that these schools tout that they are all about equity and supposed commitment to social justice but then refuse to address any real challenges? It's ALL performative. |