That is not true. The GPA threshold might be true for unhooked kids, but not true for all TJ kids. I know a few URM TJ kids who got into T10 with less than 4.4 and so-so SAT (for TJ standard). At least 2 of them didn't really have anything exceptional like recruited athlete or national awards. This is in no way a diss at URM kids but it's just the reality of college admission. |
Plenty of schools will welcome your student. The trick is to apply widely. Don't discount the safeties and focus on the essays. |
Pointless response.. They are URM kids. Would have gotten into those schools from anywhere, more than likely. Not a diss. but pointing out the reality. |
Alabama has amazing merit for NMF which many TJ students get. |
Ugh. Not the "dime a dozen" poster again! I really hate that phrase, but there is a correlative point that is important. PPP, a top girl stats-wise from TJ should do well, but the stats are the base level for consideration, not the end all be all. If the stats are all she has, make sure you have plenty of target and safety schools (& I mean true targets and safeties). There is much to love about mid tier schools, and they may offer great merit to a high stats kid. If you want top-rated, name-prestige schools, she will have to stand out with national awards, great recs and school-specific fantastic essays if no other hooks. It can be done, but don't count on it. Even with these perks, have some targets and safeties in the mix. Also, consider what schools might be the best fit for her, and where she can shine. It might not be what you think. Mine did not apply to Harvard because she didn't like the competitive culture. She was fortunate enough to get into most of the tops schools she applied for, but she was prepared to go to one of the safeties (which was all she had for a long time) and found things to love about them. We are MCPS magnet. |
Wait so where is your kid going???? After that INSANE amount of work was it worth it? This is so depressing |
NP. Why is this depressing? Our TJ DD with a higher GPA, same SAT and 12 APs all 5s also didn’t get into any Ivies (waitlisted at some and waitlisted at CMU). She is nevertheless very happy with a T10 college that accepted her and is going there. PP’s DD also could have been accepted by other top colleges, just not the Ivies. |
Not really. T30 is not going to happen with this GPA. But t40 is possible and a t50/60 is very likely if not guaranteed. |
+1 Of course a TJ student with above a 4.0 will almost assuredly get into a very good school. I guess to some TJ parents, anything below a T(fill in the number) school is a complete failure so might as well go to NOVA. Talk about being melodramatic. |
She did not do the work for getting into a top college. She did because it is what she is. She wasn't even thinking about college until about the junior packet came up for the counselor. She's going to a good college for CS major. |
+1. Same for URM and big donor legacy |
Isn't that how it is for all the "Big 3" or whatever private school families as well who essentially are paying for a medicore education and the school guidance counselor-college connection to get their lacrosse playing kid into an Ivy or a SLAC? Why is that OK but not this? Is that bias against the predominant Asian population at TJ or jealousy that your kid couldn't hack it there?
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The parents of kids that get into the ivies are thinking for their kids starting in 8th grade. They game the ECs, sports, instruments their kids play, schools their kids attend, etc. for the right outcome. Don't worry. Your kid will do well wherever she goes. Have her study CS. It's the big hustle now and will put her compensation on par with IB and other top professions. |
Thank you for your kind words! Yes, it's a very late realization for me.. |
I stand corrected. You are right, ANY parent with that mentality - regardless of what school their DC attends - should drop the drama after a little venting. I don't agree, however, that private schools in general deliver a mediocre education. Depends on the school (but you know that). |