Wife Refusing to Produce Copy of So-Called Post-Nup

Anonymous
I was going through files and noticed my copy missing pages. I asked for her copy so I could see the missing pages and she is refusing. I guess in the absence of a full copy it doesn’t legally exist.
Anonymous
would the lawyer who drew it up have record of it?
Anonymous
Is she actually “refusing” as in telling you she has them but will not give them to you? Or did you ask and she said she will do it later, or she doesn’t know where it is, etc? I would not describe the latter as refusing. Can’t you contact the lawyer who drafted the document and obtain a copy from their records?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:would the lawyer who drew it up have record of it?


+1 Your lawyer should have an executed version. You might need to pay them for an hour of work to dig it out if it's been awhile, but they should still have it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Is she actually “refusing” as in telling you she has them but will not give them to you? Or did you ask and she said she will do it later, or she doesn’t know where it is, etc? I would not describe the latter as refusing. Can’t you contact the lawyer who drafted the document and obtain a copy from their records?


He’s dead.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is she actually “refusing” as in telling you she has them but will not give them to you? Or did you ask and she said she will do it later, or she doesn’t know where it is, etc? I would not describe the latter as refusing. Can’t you contact the lawyer who drafted the document and obtain a copy from their records?


He’s dead.



Did he have an associate, partner or sell the practice to someone? They would have it in their chron or files by name and date
Anonymous
I guess if it was that important to you, you should have kept better records yourself.
Anonymous
This isn't medieval France - you can't just invalidate a legal document by burning one of the copies.

What's going on here? You have a post-nup, which I've only ever seen when one partner cheats. You have an incomplete version of the document. Did you tear out pages? Did your wife? Did they just get lost?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This isn't medieval France - you can't just invalidate a legal document by burning one of the copies.

What's going on here? You have a post-nup, which I've only ever seen when one partner cheats. You have an incomplete version of the document. Did you tear out pages? Did your wife? Did they just get lost?



This. Also you 2 seem to have some serious issues.
Anonymous
She must be cheating again
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She must be cheating again


His title is “so called”. He’s probably trying to remember how much each instance of infidelity costs him in the divorce.
Anonymous
It looks like when they ran the copies they did it one sided on a two sided document.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is she actually “refusing” as in telling you she has them but will not give them to you? Or did you ask and she said she will do it later, or she doesn’t know where it is, etc? I would not describe the latter as refusing. Can’t you contact the lawyer who drafted the document and obtain a copy from their records?


He’s dead.


Man, the cover-up going on here knows no bounds!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It looks like when they ran the copies they did it one sided on a two sided document.

So who got the original?
Anonymous
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