I follow my Ex’s Husband on Facebook

[Anonymous]

Is this weird?

I dated this girl two years and pretty much she and I were pretty sure we were getting engaged. I really loved her family. Honestly she was love of life and my biggest regret. I cheated on her and got caught. I know stupid. But she flipped out. No going back even after flowers, cards multiple apologies.

This was 25 years ago.

I have an old Facebook account under a fake name so I used it to peak at her. But not much locked account. Just an old profile pic Her husband posts a lot. Looks like has been in it since beginning. For fun send friend connect. Turns out he blindly accepted.

It is really weird. He likes a lot of same stuff I like. Lot like me actually.

I started reading his old posts. To my surprise he kinda mentioned me in a few. Stuff like always be honest to wife no matter what. In anniversary mention of the odd combination of things that got them to meet. Apparently they met immediately after my blow out incident. Story I heard from timeline she was in rebound. Met him and got pregnant first week. Guess another reason I could not get her back!

I know I have to stop looking but like a window into life I could of have. He even threw up old photos a lot going back way in time.

I am happy for her. But so weird she married someone so similar. Well except not a cheater.

Still pissed over cheating thing as was due to an ex I kinda was having friends with benefits 2-3 months. I called it off as too risky and did not want to ruin my real relationship. So I was done. But I left a receipt out as junk in apt and GF found.

I dated other girls always wondered about. But never got this weird view to see kids, husband of ex. Plus my future mother in law and brother in laws and sister in laws if I just not got caught.

[Anonymous]

Or, crazy as it seems, if you just hadn’t cheated.

[Anonymous]

It’s been 25 years. Move on.

[Anonymous]

You need to let this go and move on. The fb stuff is creepy stalker behavior. You made your bed. Now lie in it.

[Anonymous]

Oohhhh… She got pregnant the first week? Umm does her oldest child look anything like you?

[Anonymous]

This sounds like a about a cold blooded killer written from the first person pov.

[Anonymous]

I do things like this.

[Anonymous]

This has got to be a troll.

But if not, dude, you have surpassed weird, blown by creep, and are firmly in stalker territory.

He’s probably not all that much like you, but you have this twisted narrative in your head that you’re not to blame and your ex must somehow still be hung up on you. She’s not. Move on with your life.

[Anonymous]

This is beyond "weird" man. This is online stalking. If it was your daughter or sister, would you brush off her ex from 25 years ago spying on her family through a fake profile? God forbid something ever happens to her and someone finds out you've been doing this. Use FB's nuclear option to delete your stalking page forever, and don't tell anyone else about this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This has got to be a troll.

But if not, dude, you have surpassed weird, blown by creep, and are firmly in stalker territory.

He’s probably not all that much like you, but you have this twisted narrative in your head that you’re not to blame and your ex must somehow still be hung up on you. She’s not. Move on with your life.

This.

[Anonymous]

I can’t get past the fact that you think she would forgive your cheating by giving her flowers 🙄🤣

[Anonymous]

Still pissed over cheating thing as was due to an ex I kinda was having friends with benefits 2-3 months.

Dude, you’re pissed that you got caught. 2-3 months with a friend? Scumbag. Good for her for moving on.

[Anonymous]

You write so poorly, she should have dumped you for that alone

[Anonymous]

How long did you date the woman you cheated on? She found a receipt from the first 2-3 months you dated?

[Anonymous]

I think this is a troll. But on the off chance it isn't...

Bruh. Stop stalking her. It's pathetic.