Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

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No one will admit it here- or very few- but most American colleges, or at least the ones discussed here- are grossly overpriced. We keep buying in because we’re too scared not to

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Anonymous wrote:No one will admit it here- or very few- but most American colleges, or at least the ones discussed here- are grossly overpriced. We keep buying in because we’re too scared not to

It's because they are all private (which is what I think you are referring with "ones discussed here")...and all the international schools are all public.

Basically, you can make the same argument about our healthcare costs.

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Anonymous wrote:My son just started at a UK top 10 university to study History its going to cost us $72k total over 3 yrs and then he will do a 1 year law conversion which will cost us local rates because we are also UK citizens,

No it won’t, unless you lie. Brit here and it’s very clear that you pay overseas rates if you are not a UK resident regardless of your nationality.

[Anonymous]

We are abandoning applying to US colleges this year because you get a cheaper education abroad that is now recognized worldwide. It just doesn’t make sense to take out tremendous loan da and pay top dollar anymore, particularly for undergrad. For us it isn’t worth it. My child will probably do a Masters eventually in the US but not undergrad.

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Anonymous wrote:My son just started at a UK top 10 university to study History its going to cost us $72k total over 3 yrs and then he will do a 1 year law conversion which will cost us local rates because we are also UK citizens,

No it won’t, unless you lie. Brit here and it’s very clear that you pay overseas rates if you are not a UK resident regardless of your nationality.

Citizenship is not relevant. It is where you are resident that determines whether you pay home or international fees. If you haven’t resided in the UK for the previous three years then you pay international fees (unless you are overseas on a government posting, etc or you successfully lie).

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Anonymous wrote:"Unfortunately neither kid wants to stay in-state."

I mean, you realize that most kids just have to get over this and go in state? Your kids sound spoiled.

Agree. Boo hoo for them

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Anonymous wrote:My son just started at a UK top 10 university to study History its going to cost us $72k total over 3 yrs and then he will do a 1 year law conversion which will cost us local rates because we are also UK citizens,

No it won’t, unless you lie. Brit here and it’s very clear that you pay overseas rates if you are not a UK resident regardless of your nationality.

Citizenship is not relevant. It is where you are resident that determines whether you pay home or international fees. If you haven’t resided in the UK for the previous three years then you pay international fees (unless you are overseas on a government posting, etc or you successfully lie).

That’s literally what I just said!

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Anonymous wrote:Frankly I don’t understand the logic. If you don’t want to spend 250k on a US college you don’t have to. Go in state (UTA UVA Michigan UNC are all great schools for prime students) or Get merit at a T100 school.

The majority of the people I see posting on DCUM with kids going abroad are prestige hunters whose kids didn’t have the grades and stats to get into the T20/30. So off to St Andrews they go. So mommy can drop a name.

From what I see it’s not about quality of education at all. If it was y’all would be hyping up Durham and Warwick. But instead it’s the same 3 UK schools (I don’t begrudge Oxbridge btw that’s legit). But LSE as a psych major? Please.

I dont get this board's fixable/hatred of St Andrews when again and again, it's top 5 in UK, in a dreamy little corner with sky high student satisfaction numbers. You dont begrudge Oxbridge because "that's legit". St Andrew's is legit and so is LSE.

MY kids are in the US, but cmon...

I know you think so. Because the rankings say so. But St Andrews is like Northeastern. I said what I said.

Is Northeastern a top ranked school now? I actually have nothing against Northeastern either. We toured it. Kids want co-ops! I get it.

Northeastern is an average school that has convinced a small subset of people that it is better than it is. But really IYKYK. And same with St Andrews.

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Anonymous wrote:No one will admit it here- or very few- but most American colleges, or at least the ones discussed here- are grossly overpriced. We keep buying in because we’re too scared not to

I mean yes, if you are too good to send your kid to a SUNY and insist on Northeastern.

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Anonymous wrote:Why in the world would you go to a random European university instead of a state college in your state? Make it make sense.

In state doesn't always have the major one wants.

DC is looking at oos or private.

We ran the numbers going oos/private vs to the UK. The most expensive UK uni we looked at ends up being like $200K with travel to/fro. The ones we think DC will like will be around $175K, all in. They are looking at a sandwich program where you take a year out in industry. You do pay tuition, but at a much reduced rate, and you get paid for the internship. Even though you do have to find the internship yourself, the uni career center does help out. But, rather than just the 10 week summer internship, you are looking at more like 20+ weeks.

Plus, DC wants out of MD , and I can't blame them.

We have family in the UK, and I think DC would really like it there, and so would I. I just got back from the UK, and not having ever to think about a possible shooting while there was such a relief.

My other kid is in state, and they have active shooter alerts. The first time they sent out a test alert, DC got nervous and wasn't sure what was going on.

It is incredibly sad that we think this is a normal way to live.

Please what major does UMD not have that they can only get at Durham University? Also I’m not sure why *paying* to work for free for a year is considered a plus. stay home, go to UMD, and then get an actual paying job.

I'm not going to state what the major is because then you'd make some ignorant comment about that major. But the tuition for that sandwich year is tiny. I'd be happy to pay that tiny amount for the experience and pay that DC would get.

But, it's true, in state colleges don't always have the major one wants.

DC will absolutely hate 1000% going in state. Plus, the UK's culture is much more aligned to DC's interests.

Sure, ok.

you're very ignorant. UMD does not have every major out there. It's a great school. My DC is there, but it's not all encompassing. That's why it's part of the Academic Common Market, but even then, not all majors are listed there.

I feel sorry for you that your mind is so small.

BTW, I am very practical and somewhat frugal. But, there are pros to going abroad for college, especially with the cost of college these days.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/college-applications-europe-uk-asia-jump-amid-rising-costs-political-turmoil/#:~:text=Data%20collected%20by%20the%20International,year%20their%20numbers%20were%20available.

And they aren't all going to Oxbridge or LSE.

He said from November 2024 through July 2025, website visits went from 600,990 to 1,534,929 and strategy calls went from 2,215 to 29,373 in the same period.

American student applications to the United Kingdom rose 14% this year, according to UCAS, the UK's shared admissions service for higher education. This was the largest increase since UCAS started collecting the data in 2006.

lol no, you are not a bit “practical and frugal” if you would send your kid to a UK college instead of UMD.

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Anonymous wrote:Why in the world would you go to a random European university instead of a state college in your state? Make it make sense.

In state doesn't always have the major one wants.

DC is looking at oos or private.

We ran the numbers going oos/private vs to the UK. The most expensive UK uni we looked at ends up being like $200K with travel to/fro. The ones we think DC will like will be around $175K, all in. They are looking at a sandwich program where you take a year out in industry. You do pay tuition, but at a much reduced rate, and you get paid for the internship. Even though you do have to find the internship yourself, the uni career center does help out. But, rather than just the 10 week summer internship, you are looking at more like 20+ weeks.

Plus, DC wants out of MD , and I can't blame them.

We have family in the UK, and I think DC would really like it there, and so would I. I just got back from the UK, and not having ever to think about a possible shooting while there was such a relief.

My other kid is in state, and they have active shooter alerts. The first time they sent out a test alert, DC got nervous and wasn't sure what was going on.

It is incredibly sad that we think this is a normal way to live.

Please what major does UMD not have that they can only get at Durham University? Also I’m not sure why *paying* to work for free for a year is considered a plus. stay home, go to UMD, and then get an actual paying job.

NP actually in the UK when you go an internship, your tuition fees are reduced to really what it costs them to do the paperwork. when PP said much reduced, you should read that as really MUCH reduced. Maybe 1k a year..

Meanwhile, in the US, colleges charge kids full tuition prices for their junior year abroad, when those kids are enrolled in colleges that cost 5-15k a year. What a ripoff!

But you’re still taking a year out of what should be your education to work for free/reduced salary. That doesn’t sound like a serious take on higher education. It sounds like a way for companies to get cheap temporary labor, and universities to reduce their costs.

Are you trying to be obtuse? The students are being paid. It’s not free labor. Additionally, I’d argue that having an entire year of internship in one place is very valuable education and provides potentially excellent recommendas and networking opportunities.

Internships are for failsons. Strive to have your kid prepared to find a paying job at normal market rates after graduating with an excellent education.

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Anonymous wrote:Why in the world would you go to a random European university instead of a state college in your state? Make it make sense.

In state doesn't always have the major one wants.

DC is looking at oos or private.

We ran the numbers going oos/private vs to the UK. The most expensive UK uni we looked at ends up being like $200K with travel to/fro. The ones we think DC will like will be around $175K, all in. They are looking at a sandwich program where you take a year out in industry. You do pay tuition, but at a much reduced rate, and you get paid for the internship. Even though you do have to find the internship yourself, the uni career center does help out. But, rather than just the 10 week summer internship, you are looking at more like 20+ weeks.

Plus, DC wants out of MD , and I can't blame them.

We have family in the UK, and I think DC would really like it there, and so would I. I just got back from the UK, and not having ever to think about a possible shooting while there was such a relief.

My other kid is in state, and they have active shooter alerts. The first time they sent out a test alert, DC got nervous and wasn't sure what was going on.

It is incredibly sad that we think this is a normal way to live.

Please what major does UMD not have that they can only get at Durham University? Also I’m not sure why *paying* to work for free for a year is considered a plus. stay home, go to UMD, and then get an actual paying job.

I'm not going to state what the major is because then you'd make some ignorant comment about that major. But the tuition for that sandwich year is tiny. I'd be happy to pay that tiny amount for the experience and pay that DC would get.

But, it's true, in state colleges don't always have the major one wants.

DC will absolutely hate 1000% going in state. Plus, the UK's culture is much more aligned to DC's interests.

Sure, ok.

you're very ignorant. UMD does not have every major out there. It's a great school. My DC is there, but it's not all encompassing. That's why it's part of the Academic Common Market, but even then, not all majors are listed there.

I feel sorry for you that your mind is so small.

BTW, I am very practical and somewhat frugal. But, there are pros to going abroad for college, especially with the cost of college these days.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/college-applications-europe-uk-asia-jump-amid-rising-costs-political-turmoil/#:~:text=Data%20collected%20by%20the%20International,year%20their%20numbers%20were%20available.

And they aren't all going to Oxbridge or LSE.

He said from November 2024 through July 2025, website visits went from 600,990 to 1,534,929 and strategy calls went from 2,215 to 29,373 in the same period.

American student applications to the United Kingdom rose 14% this year, according to UCAS, the UK's shared admissions service for higher education. This was the largest increase since UCAS started collecting the data in 2006.

lol no, you are not a bit “practical and frugal” if you would send your kid to a UK college instead of UMD.

UK unis are cheaper than in state here, as it's for 3 years of studying the intended major rather than 2 years of gened then 2 yrs of intended major. So, yes, it is practical and frugal.

And I have one kid at UMD with some merit.

You still have a small mind.

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Anonymous wrote:Why in the world would you go to a random European university instead of a state college in your state? Make it make sense.

In state doesn't always have the major one wants.

DC is looking at oos or private.

We ran the numbers going oos/private vs to the UK. The most expensive UK uni we looked at ends up being like $200K with travel to/fro. The ones we think DC will like will be around $175K, all in. They are looking at a sandwich program where you take a year out in industry. You do pay tuition, but at a much reduced rate, and you get paid for the internship. Even though you do have to find the internship yourself, the uni career center does help out. But, rather than just the 10 week summer internship, you are looking at more like 20+ weeks.

Plus, DC wants out of MD , and I can't blame them.

We have family in the UK, and I think DC would really like it there, and so would I. I just got back from the UK, and not having ever to think about a possible shooting while there was such a relief.

My other kid is in state, and they have active shooter alerts. The first time they sent out a test alert, DC got nervous and wasn't sure what was going on.

It is incredibly sad that we think this is a normal way to live.

Please what major does UMD not have that they can only get at Durham University? Also I’m not sure why *paying* to work for free for a year is considered a plus. stay home, go to UMD, and then get an actual paying job.

NP actually in the UK when you go an internship, your tuition fees are reduced to really what it costs them to do the paperwork. when PP said much reduced, you should read that as really MUCH reduced. Maybe 1k a year..

Meanwhile, in the US, colleges charge kids full tuition prices for their junior year abroad, when those kids are enrolled in colleges that cost 5-15k a year. What a ripoff!

But you’re still taking a year out of what should be your education to work for free/reduced salary. That doesn’t sound like a serious take on higher education. It sounds like a way for companies to get cheap temporary labor, and universities to reduce their costs.

Are you trying to be obtuse? The students are being paid. It’s not free labor. Additionally, I’d argue that having an entire year of internship in one place is very valuable education and provides potentially excellent recommendas and networking opportunities.

Internships are for failsons. Strive to have your kid prepared to find a paying job at normal market rates after graduating with an excellent education.

don't know what that means, but my CS/math major kid has had two internships so far in the US, one paid $40/hour.

Now a days, most employers want to see some internship work experience in the field. Internship application season is crazy. DC said they are starting now for a summer internship, and many are applying to 100+ to get one or two interviews.

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Anonymous wrote:No one will admit it here- or very few- but most American colleges, or at least the ones discussed here- are grossly overpriced. We keep buying in because we’re too scared not to

It's because they are all private (which is what I think you are referring with "ones discussed here")...and all the international schools are all public.

Basically, you can make the same argument about our healthcare costs.

Both are true.

We are being scammed in the US, both for college and healthcare costs.

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I dont think they ever have unpaid internships anymore! The best internships pay 30k a summer!

Anywho - for full pay families, like ours, it's T10 or getting creative. UK and Canada are def on the radar for our younger kid