+10 at work |
She will be stuck with "is that short for Jennifer" her whole life. People will call her Jennifer unbidden. HR will look at her birth certificate / passport / social security card and STILL ASK if her name is short for Jennifer. People will suggest she change her name if she wants to be taken seriously. Don't do it. -signed Jenny (not a nickname for Jennifer) |
Almost never happens to me. And I’d still prefer it to going by something other than my legal name. -Jennie |
Yep, I actually have a mix of Jennie/Jennifer on these types of things. Like I said, sure is a pain to have a legal name I don’t use. One time I went round in circles on the phone with someone from my university about the name on my diploma. She kept saying I needed Jennifer, and I kept asking “on the diploma I already have on my wall??” And explaining that I use Jennie professionally. It was probably the weirdest conversation I’ve had about my name because the diploma was months old and already in my possession. The end result was that I needed to send her an email with Jennie in the signature block to prove that’s what I use 🤷♀️ |
Agree. It is a good name. |
dp I actually don't think people will really ask or push as much as you say. If they ask, she will just say no. I don't see how that is an "ordeal" I actually thought of naming our dd Jennie after my dh's great-grandmother but, ultimately chose another name. I think Op should go for it. |
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As someone with a "nickname" for a name, it's not that big of a deal. Really.
That said, I prefer the Jenny spelling for a standalone name. I know some Scandinavian/Scandinavian-American women named Jenny, and that's how they spell it. Also, Jenny used to be a nickname for Jane, so you could name her Jane and call her Jenny if you want, too. |