Saw my friend’s husband flirting with other women

[Anonymous]

Flirting is where it starts and hopefully that's where it also stops.

[Anonymous]

OP upset he wasn't flirting with her. I flirt/talk with attractive women. It's natural. What are men suppose to do ignore hot women and only talk to ugly ones?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Both my husband and I are very outgoing, friendly and conversational in other words good party people. I’m sure some people might say that we are flirting at times but we’re not. If we are at the same event, afterwards we like to compare notes on the interesting…or boring….people we have met. Thankfully, mostly interesting.

Same with us.

Ditto. I’m a notorious flirt! My DH is not as notorious as me, but we can work a room like nobody’s business.

[Anonymous]

Yes, OP felt left out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who are you people posting "it's no big deal?" Flirting with others isn't a big deal if your spouse is aware and consents. If not, if you're hiding/doing it behind your spouse's back and would be embarrassed/ashamed/lie if caught, it's cheating and on the way to an EA.

I suspect the "nbd" types are either cheaters themselves and related to the guy OP caught, or only okay with it b/c it's OP's friend's partner (and you're assuming that's not your man).

There is a distinct line between friendly and flirty. If you're flirting with no intention of following through, you're leading someone on. Don't be a dick.

Holy snowflake Batman. Does your husband get unchained from the radiator very often?
And leading someone on with a little flirt? It’s not a marriage proposal. Jeez.

What is the male version of "slut"? Reverse the gender's in OP's (troll)post, and tell me you're still totally fine with it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Both my husband and I are very outgoing, friendly and conversational in other words good party people. I’m sure some people might say that we are flirting at times but we’re not. If we are at the same event, afterwards we like to compare notes on the interesting…or boring….people we have met. Thankfully, mostly interesting.

Same with us.

Ditto. I’m a notorious flirt! My DH is not as notorious as me, but we can work a room like nobody’s business.

Actually everyone thinks you’re trashy and desperate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP upset he wasn't flirting with her. I flirt/talk with attractive women. It's natural. What are men suppose to do ignore hot women and only talk to ugly ones?

Are you married or have a SO? This is such trashy behavior.

[Anonymous]

Some men flirt a lot, even in front of their wives/SO/kids, but wouldn’t escalate to cheating. I’m with OP though, I find it pretty gross and disrespectful.

[Anonymous]

TELL HER. You would want to know.