Comment from new guy about my hips- what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

Your ex husband is a lucky man that he got away. You are so damn insecure. You're a small woman with hips. That's all he was saying. This guy needs to run away and not look back.

-Man

[Anonymous]

Is OP saying she’s NOT divorced yet is out dating and throwing her wares around? In Virginia that’s considered bigamy.

[Anonymous]

It's definitely a compliment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A curvy girl with substantial hips and a big curve in from hip to waist just drives me wild. I have to think the guy was very happy with what he saw.

Yuck

Dial 1-900-mix-a-lot and kick them nasty thoughts.

[Anonymous]

If he said that I'm pretty sure you must be fat. Maybe you need to go on a diet until you are wearing a size zero or maybe even -2 or -4.

[Anonymous]

If you eat negative energy food like frozen celery you can actually turn yourself into a black hole and create a new event horizon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are old enough to have children and an ex-husband, and this is what you care about?

Lord. When I read OP I became terrified if I ever divorce I'll revert back to an insecure 17 yr old

[Anonymous]

A man once told me I had ‘birthing hips’ after we were intimate for the first time. Would that be a compliment?!

[Anonymous]

When I read the title, I thought you were meaning “new guy at work” or similar and I was going to say “WTF”. But you already had your clothes off and did the deed. He liked them and was just trying to make a compliment. Men after sex are very relaxed and that’s when many of them are the most open.

But as others have said, please banish your inner teenager, and if you can’t, stop sleeping with people until you know them better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you eat negative energy food like frozen celery you can actually turn yourself into a black hole and create a new event horizon.

I laffed.

[Anonymous]

Can you link to a photo that gives us an idea of what you look like? Then we can better judge. It doesn't have to be you, just a photo that is similar to you.

[Anonymous]

The only guy I’ve been with who didn’t like my curvy hips was East Asian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A man once told me I had ‘birthing hips’ after we were intimate for the first time. Would that be a compliment?!

Beeg heeps beer many strong sons!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Going thru a divorce and have not been with anyone except my ex since having children. I am not fat (size 2/4) but curvy. I was having dinner with a guy that I’m into and we were talking about the gym. I said that I don’t have time to work out and he asked how I could be so thin. I laughed and said well I’m not THAT thin, I have big hips! A week later we were in bed for the first time and he saw me naked. He said “You’re right, you DO have hips!” And laughed. The way he said it made it sound like a positive, but I am obviously sensitive about my body and I keep replaying that in my head. I don’t think that’s really a compliment, lol. Just wondering what others thoughts are. Does he think I’m fat?

So you cheated on your husband before you had your kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are old enough to have children and an ex-husband, and this is what you care about?

This is rude. I'm a divorced mom of 2. Intellectually I know I have a nice body, but it's not the body I had before I got married. It's hard to reconcile the 2 when you get back on the dating scene - especially the first time you sleep with someone.