Guys why do you like exceptionally petite woman?

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Men and women seem to have a different understanding of the word petite. As women, we see petite sizes in stores (which really just means short), and know whether we wear them or not. I have been called petite more times than I can count by men. I am 5'6! But I'm really tiny, small bone structure, 114 ponds, delicate features, narrow shoulders, etc. I'm obviously not petite at this height, but I guess I am small overall and it's misinterpreted as petite.
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Anonymous wrote:Man here in 30s. Love "fun size" women. Why? Sex is better. Yes, I can squat 300 lbs and bench 225. I'm a 6' dude. Not small, but when I'm having sex I don't want it to be a workout. It's much more fun to have sex picking a woman up and tossing her around when she's 100-115 lbs than 140/150+. Also clothes. Tiny women look good in more suggestive outfits (crop tops, short skirts, denim shorts, etc.) Visually seeing a taut tummy is appealing.



You are a lazy lover. I bet you never had a woman who could bend you into a pretzel and toss you like salad.


Assume what you want. I was pretty clear. Just because I can push 200lbs up and down doesn't mean I have to like doing it in the bedroom. I prefer to leave that to cross fit and/or the gym. Good thing for me is there's plenty of supply for 100-115lb women that I've never had to date heavier.



I see why you are single.


Not looking for a relationship =)... doesn't mean I don't get laid sweetie

I guess you call your hand, a date.


Why so much hate because he doesn't want to date fat chicks? What is it with heavy women so sensitive when guys don't find them attractive. I'm 5 feet and about 110 lbs and don't find tiny little men attractive, so I go for tall guys with a nice build. Friend of mine is 200 lbs her DH probably 130 soaking wet and shorter than she is. It's all about preference, and that's okay. People are allowed to have preferences. Bigger gals need to stop thinking men who don't find them attractive are pigs or mean or shallow. They just don't dig fat chicks.


I completely agree with you- it's ridiculous that overly-sensitive people are flipping out because of one person's preference, especially when it's likely they have physical preferences of their own.

The only thing is, at 110 pounds and 5 ft, you aren't petite. You a short, but a husky, sturdy thing.


+1. I am 5'6 and 115 and skinny, but if I were only 5 feet and only 5 lbs lighter, I certainly would not be tiny. Most people confuse "short" with "petite."


Yep. I'm 5'5 and 117. I don't consider myself all that skinny. I'm athletic. I would consider myself overweight if I were even 10 pounds heavier. 5'5 and 110 is thick.
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Anonymous wrote:Man here in 30s. Love "fun size" women. Why? Sex is better. Yes, I can squat 300 lbs and bench 225. I'm a 6' dude. Not small, but when I'm having sex I don't want it to be a workout. It's much more fun to have sex picking a woman up and tossing her around when she's 100-115 lbs than 140/150+. Also clothes. Tiny women look good in more suggestive outfits (crop tops, short skirts, denim shorts, etc.) Visually seeing a taut tummy is appealing.



You are a lazy lover. I bet you never had a woman who could bend you into a pretzel and toss you like salad.


Assume what you want. I was pretty clear. Just because I can push 200lbs up and down doesn't mean I have to like doing it in the bedroom. I prefer to leave that to cross fit and/or the gym. Good thing for me is there's plenty of supply for 100-115lb women that I've never had to date heavier.



I see why you are single.


Not looking for a relationship =)... doesn't mean I don't get laid sweetie

I guess you call your hand, a date.


Why so much hate because he doesn't want to date fat chicks? What is it with heavy women so sensitive when guys don't find them attractive. I'm 5 feet and about 110 lbs and don't find tiny little men attractive, so I go for tall guys with a nice build. Friend of mine is 200 lbs her DH probably 130 soaking wet and shorter than she is. It's all about preference, and that's okay. People are allowed to have preferences. Bigger gals need to stop thinking men who don't find them attractive are pigs or mean or shallow. They just don't dig fat chicks.


I completely agree with you- it's ridiculous that overly-sensitive people are flipping out because of one person's preference, especially when it's likely they have physical preferences of their own.

The only thing is, at 110 pounds and 5 ft, you aren't petite. You a short, but a husky, sturdy thing.


+1. I am 5'6 and 115 and skinny, but if I were only 5 feet and only 5 lbs lighter, I certainly would not be tiny. Most people confuse "short" with "petite."


Yep. I'm 5'5 and 117. I don't consider myself all that skinny. I'm athletic. I would consider myself overweight if I were even 10 pounds heavier. 5'5 and 110 is thick.


*meant 5 ft and 110.
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Anonymous wrote:Man here in 30s. Love "fun size" women. Why? Sex is better. Yes, I can squat 300 lbs and bench 225. I'm a 6' dude. Not small, but when I'm having sex I don't want it to be a workout. It's much more fun to have sex picking a woman up and tossing her around when she's 100-115 lbs than 140/150+. Also clothes. Tiny women look good in more suggestive outfits (crop tops, short skirts, denim shorts, etc.) Visually seeing a taut tummy is appealing.



You are a lazy lover. I bet you never had a woman who could bend you into a pretzel and toss you like salad.


Assume what you want. I was pretty clear. Just because I can push 200lbs up and down doesn't mean I have to like doing it in the bedroom. I prefer to leave that to cross fit and/or the gym. Good thing for me is there's plenty of supply for 100-115lb women that I've never had to date heavier.



I see why you are single.


Not looking for a relationship =)... doesn't mean I don't get laid sweetie

I guess you call your hand, a date.


Why so much hate because he doesn't want to date fat chicks? What is it with heavy women so sensitive when guys don't find them attractive. I'm 5 feet and about 110 lbs and don't find tiny little men attractive, so I go for tall guys with a nice build. Friend of mine is 200 lbs her DH probably 130 soaking wet and shorter than she is. It's all about preference, and that's okay. People are allowed to have preferences. Bigger gals need to stop thinking men who don't find them attractive are pigs or mean or shallow. They just don't dig fat chicks.


You realize that you're short but hardly tiny at that height & weight, right?


She isn't tiny? That is interesting. I am 5' and between 98 and 100lb (depending on if I have my period or not or how many girl scout cookies I have eaten that week) and I get called pretty and tiny all the time.
I heard both of those yesterday. So PUH-LEASE. 5' is small.


Yes, 5 feet is small. 5 feet at 110 lbs, a person is certainly small in stature, but not thin and petite.
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Anonymous wrote:Man here in 30s. Love "fun size" women. Why? Sex is better. Yes, I can squat 300 lbs and bench 225. I'm a 6' dude. Not small, but when I'm having sex I don't want it to be a workout. It's much more fun to have sex picking a woman up and tossing her around when she's 100-115 lbs than 140/150+. Also clothes. Tiny women look good in more suggestive outfits (crop tops, short skirts, denim shorts, etc.) Visually seeing a taut tummy is appealing.



You are a lazy lover. I bet you never had a woman who could bend you into a pretzel and toss you like salad.


Assume what you want. I was pretty clear. Just because I can push 200lbs up and down doesn't mean I have to like doing it in the bedroom. I prefer to leave that to cross fit and/or the gym. Good thing for me is there's plenty of supply for 100-115lb women that I've never had to date heavier.



I see why you are single.


Not looking for a relationship =)... doesn't mean I don't get laid sweetie

I guess you call your hand, a date.


Why so much hate because he doesn't want to date fat chicks? What is it with heavy women so sensitive when guys don't find them attractive. I'm 5 feet and about 110 lbs and don't find tiny little men attractive, so I go for tall guys with a nice build. Friend of mine is 200 lbs her DH probably 130 soaking wet and shorter than she is. It's all about preference, and that's okay. People are allowed to have preferences. Bigger gals need to stop thinking men who don't find them attractive are pigs or mean or shallow. They just don't dig fat chicks.


I completely agree with you- it's ridiculous that overly-sensitive people are flipping out because of one person's preference, especially when it's likely they have physical preferences of their own.

The only thing is, at 110 pounds and 5 ft, you aren't petite. You a short, but a husky, sturdy thing.
Get the F out here. When I was 110 at 5 ft I was indeed small and petite.


We're adults. You can spell the "f'ing" word.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't. I am 6'4". I like women who are 5' 9"plus.


I feel sorry for your offspring. They will be HUGE.


Biiiiitter.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't. I am 6'4". I like women who are 5' 9"plus.


I feel sorry for your offspring. They will be HUGE.

Why would you be sorry? Normal/ tall is preferable to Lilliputian.


I think large/real tall girls have hard time socially.

DD is 14, 5'8 1/2 and wishes she were 6'0 her friends are all 5'2-5'6 and also wish they were tall. She loves being on the taller side because it help she her athletically
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Anonymous wrote:Most men don't like super short women. They just like very thin women. This is what they think of when they hear "petite" - feminine, delicate, small-boned. Many short women are built like little tanks.


You rarely see tall women who are small boned. Most look like linebackers.

Are you not familiar with the fashion industry? It was built on tall, waifish women.


That's because the fashion industry is run by gay men. They'd prefer models that look like tall, thin adolescent boys. Real men never watch a fashion show or look at models other than those in the Victoria's Secret catalog (who are not waifs).

Agreed. Gigi Hadid and Cara Delevigne could easily pass for 15 year old males.
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Anonymous wrote:I have a long held theory about this: I think some men are aroused by young girls (like age 11+) but thankfully would never act on that attraction. The answer, then, is petite women.


I have always had this theory.

That seems ridiculous, but if that were true, they have something wrong with them and need to be locked up.
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Anonymous wrote:I have a long held theory about this: I think some men are aroused by young girls (like age 11+) but thankfully would never act on that attraction. The answer, then, is petite women.


I have always had this theory.

That seems ridiculous, but if that were true, they have something wrong with them and need to be locked up.


I'm certain that what attracted my husband to me - 5'3 112 traithelete was my looking like a child at 28 when we started dating.

Oh wait! I didn't look like a child, I looked like a fertile, fit and sexy woman.
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Assume that to a guy my height (6-0) or taller, any woman under 5-8 is "short". You are looking down at her hair if she stands close.
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Anonymous wrote:I have a long held theory about this: I think some men are aroused by young girls (like age 11+) but thankfully would never act on that attraction. The answer, then, is petite women.


I have always had this theory.

That seems ridiculous, but if that were true, they have something wrong with them and need to be locked up.


I'm certain that what attracted my husband to me - 5'3 112 traithelete was my looking like a child at 28 when we started dating.

Oh wait! I didn't look like a child, I looked like a fertile, fit and sexy woman.


If you say so.
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Anonymous wrote:I have a long held theory about this: I think some men are aroused by young girls (like age 11+) but thankfully would never act on that attraction. The answer, then, is petite women.


I have always had this theory.

That seems ridiculous, but if that were true, they have something wrong with them and need to be locked up.


I'm certain that what attracted my husband to me - 5'3 112 traithelete was my looking like a child at 28 when we started dating.

Oh wait! I didn't look like a child, I looked like a fertile, fit and sexy woman.


Sure...sure...
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Anonymous wrote:Most men don't like super short women. They just like very thin women. This is what they think of when they hear "petite" - feminine, delicate, small-boned. Many short women are built like little tanks.


You rarely see tall women who are small boned. Most look like linebackers.


Lol. Yes, all those tall, thin models, actresses, etc. look so much like linebackers.


Most of them don't look good in person. The designers just like how the clothes hang on the taller models.
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What I find even more interesting is that you hardly ever, or I have never, run into a woman that prefers petite men or even men of a small stature. Why is that? Surely if a certain group of men can get with a girl that is <5 ft and <100lbs some women would go for the same in men. If not what does that show?
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