My daughter is 29 and dating a guy who is 7 years younger

[Anonymous]

She says she wants to get married eventually. I don't know if to this guy or not. Isn't it kind of weird? He hasn't even started a career yet and actually doesn't have a degree, he works retail. She's college educated, works a low paying office job. I'm like why can't you look for a guy with a professional degree when you're a thin, conventionally attractive, college educated 20 something woman? She will never be able to afford a house or family with this guy. We don't have money to give her.

[Anonymous]

He must have other qualities that she really enjoys.

[Anonymous]

A man is not a plan. Is he hot?

[Anonymous]

Homie is living his milf dreams.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that’s definitely strange. How’s her self confidence?

[Anonymous]

If she’s college educated but working a low paid job not in her field at age 29, sounds like they are at the same place in life. As PP said, a man is not a plan.

[Anonymous]

She's old enough to make her own dating decisions, even if they're mistakes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She says she wants to get married eventually. I don't know if to this guy or not. Isn't it kind of weird? He hasn't even started a career yet and actually doesn't have a degree, he works retail. She's college educated, works a low paying office job. I'm like why can't you look for a guy with a professional degree when you're a thin, conventionally attractive, college educated 20 something woman? She will never be able to afford a house or family with this guy. We don't have money to give her.

She’s horny - have you considered her sexual needs?

The men you probably push her towards can’t go 6 rounds a night with 5 minute refractory periods

[Anonymous]

Call me

[Anonymous]

Predator Alert!!! A 22 year old man, especially of the present generation, has the mental and social maturity of an adolescent boy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She says she wants to get married eventually. I don't know if to this guy or not. Isn't it kind of weird? He hasn't even started a career yet and actually doesn't have a degree, he works retail. She's college educated, works a low paying office job. I'm like why can't you look for a guy with a professional degree when you're a thin, conventionally attractive, college educated 20 something woman? She will never be able to afford a house or family with this guy. We don't have money to give her.

I started dating my husband when I was 31 and he was 26. He had a degree in East Asian religion and worked at UPS. I worked as a very underpaid social worker. 20 years later he was a software engineer and I was an architect.

Let her be

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she’s college educated but working a low paid job not in her field at age 29, sounds like they are at the same place in life. As PP said, a man is not a plan.

I think you should be encouraging her career goals instead. She needs to be able to support herself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Predator Alert!!! A 22 year old man, especially of the present generation, has the mental and social maturity of an adolescent boy.

A 22 year old is predatory towards a 29 year old? Do you get out much?

[Anonymous]

I know a couple that met at these ages same age difference and they are going strong 20 years later with two kids.

[Anonymous]

Did you raise her to believe that money is not important?