Really all I can get is a min wage mall job. Damn wish someone should have told me that before I went and spent money on college. Oh but that's ok because I'm probably poor too and have bad credit. Aww man guess graduating hs a year early and starting college was a waste of my time. Thank you poster for setting me straight!!!! By the way how many degrees do you have??? I have 3 I don't nanny because I can't find other work - I nanny because it's what I love to do. And my college debt is paid off, so is my house and I just got a new car. Guess if I'm so stupid I can only get a min wage job I must be doing something right. Come back when your darling little child is serving me at the McDonalds drive thru or bagging my groceries. |
The nanny's on this board are always angry and ill tempered. Makes me sick.
-the 10:03 nanny from this thread |
Doing children's laundry is a pretty standard nanny responsibility. (OP, you are hilariously correct.) |
That is because I do!!! |
Nanny here. Doing children's laundry is part of taking care of your charge. Just by that statement I can already tell you are one of the nannies the OP is referring to. OP, I know what you mean, but I don't think I go above and beyond. I just do my job and when asked to do extra stuff, I do it if I have time and it's not troublesome for me (dropping off clothes to cleaners, checking mail, feeding dogs, etc) because I have great employers who don't take advantage of me. I think that's key. |
OP, in many situations (especially with nannies who martyr constantly as you described in your post), the employers set low expectations in the initial contract. (Care for kids, do kid laundry, pick up toys, feed kids prepared meals)
Then the employers started adding little tiny tasks to the nanny's day. (Vacuum, run errands, stay late once a week...) but didn't actually ASK nanny if she were willing to do those things, or offer to pay more for the additional work. If that trend continues, many nannies get aggravated, and start to complain about how horrid their employers are as parents...because the employers have made nanny think they can't manage without her and loaded her down with work she never expected to be doing when she agreed to work for them. Disrespectful employers = disrespectful and whiny nanny who feels beaten down and therefore tries to make herself feel better by constantly discussing how she goes above and beyond. OTOH, respectful employers (who don't expect their nanny to constantly be "flexible" about when her work day ends) take the contract seriously, and don't start out with bare minimum duties, figuring to add stuff in each week. They know what they want nanny to do, and nanny knows they won't begin adding stuff to her list. That nanny may also have complaints (because NO ONE loves their job 100% of the time) but she feels respected and valued. Therefore, she is willing to take the occasional extra duty on, without additional pay, figuring that her willingness to help out will be noted and will benefit her at raise time. Respectful employers = respectful nanny who doesn't feel the need to flog her importance all over the place. |
I knew nannies would try to explain themselves but c'mon, we all love kids but to choose that over a successful career is not believable and that's why you're getting defensive over something that an internet user said. Lol. |
I understand that but once again, I said OCCASIONALLY flexible. Not constant. And I disagree with employers who add unrelated house-keeping tasks which is why I wrote "I know there are shitty employers as well" at the bottom of the original post. I'm talking about the entitled complainers who are constantly looking for sympathy on the nanny boards. I see nannies who write on DCUM who seem like they do in fact get taken advantage of and I give them helpful suggestions. But alot of the complainers are not being taken advantage of but instead, they feel entitled or feel that the duties are 'below them' and that their mere presence should be rewarded and when they don't get a 'thank you' for wiping down a counter, they freak. |
Wow, you agreed with yourself. |
I've never seen a parent post those type of questions. Nice try you little fibber. You seem mad, did I do something to upset you? |
Nope, I'm the OP.. And thank you PP. |
I'm an awesome nanny with awesome bosses who are also awesome parents. Suck it OP, get a life. |
You already responded to that poster already, why are you responding again? Noone cares. You don't seem to confident, infact you seem quite bitter yourself. Lol. You obviously missed PP's point completely when he was talking about the laundry and dishwasher. If you can't comprehend then don't bother coming back a second time with the same ol' comment. *yawn* |
Everyone thinks there awesome but to me, you're just another internet nobody who tries to convince themselves that they're awesome. |
You're welcome! |