What makes a woman marriage material?
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Anonymous
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+1 on the mental illness.
Difficult for those to get married and stay married. Difficult even for other types of relationships with lesser exposure, time together. |
Anonymous
| No one cares about picking random characters from random movies and pretending you’re clever. |
Anonymous
Ok, next time don’t ask for an explanation. Google it! |
Anonymous
| So clever yet again Mr Burns! |
Anonymous
That’s what I thought before I married someone in therapy whose mom is schizophrenic. And whaddaya know she also went nuts. |
Anonymous
NP. It was clever. Just because you’re a philistine doesn’t mean the rest of us have to operate on your distinctly low level. (I’ll wait while you google “philistine.”) |
Anonymous
| A woman needs to be on the more attractive side and be willing to date men slightly less attractive if she wants a good chance of finding a husband. It’s always the women who prioritize looks and raw physical attraction in men who end up still single after 30. Those women usually end up being pumped and dumped repeatedly by f***boys |
Anonymous
+2 |
Anonymous
Then you’re just foolish. A schizophrenic family member — and mother!— is like the worst possible mental illness genetic inheritance. That’s totally different from someone who is in therapy bc of dysfunctional patterns they’re trying to improve, or working through grief, or has ADHD or garden variety anxiety/stress. |
Anonymous
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"Jesus Christ! What the hell did I just read? Are you a Black or Latina female who is speaking from your own experience?"
I'm the PP you're asking, and I'm Latino but I married a white guy and have kids. A simple Google search of desirable characteristics on dating websites among white men will confirm what I've written. |
Anonymous
DP. Huh. Ok, your friends find only a narrow subset of men to be marriage material. If one of those men were interested, they'd be willing (case in point, you: married to a white guy). But your friends aren't willing to date or marry if they perceive it as settling. All of that is perfectly fine, and no woman should be shamed for not marrying. But there is no need to go further than that and insult the women who ultimately married the men your friends wanted but did not get. |
Anonymous
there you go again. |
Anonymous
No, you are not “Latino.” You are LatinX. Get it right! |
Anonymous
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Reasons why someone who desires to be in a relationship cannot find one after a long period of time:
1. Unrealistic expectations of partners and what it takes to be in a relationship or marriage 2. Mental health issues (e.g. untreated anxiety, depression, personality disorder) or unresolved childhood trauma or dysfunctional parent/child relationship 3. Lack of self awareness and/or emotional intelligence 4. Lifestyle demonstrates lack of self control or good decision making skills (e.g. alcohol, drugs, extreme debt, etc.) |
Anonymous
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"DP. Huh. Ok, your friends find only a narrow subset of men to be marriage material. If one of those men were interested, they'd be willing (case in point, you: married to a white guy). But your friends aren't willing to date or marry if they perceive it as settling. All of that is perfectly fine, and no woman should be shamed for not marrying. But there is no need to go further than that and insult the women who ultimately married the men your friends wanted but did not get."
Work on your reading comprehension. It's the white guys who were not interested in these women of color. |