Terrible approach |
It's a bunch of different things. But I know my husband really appreciated that I don't take a long time to get ready/am ready when I say I'll be ready, and that I bring zero drama. |
If a woman is 35+ and never married (and wants to be married - I am not talking about women who don't want marriage) 99% chance she wasted her prime dating years (20s) in dead end relationship(s) that lasted for years but never progressed to an engagement. Meanwhile, all her marriage-minded male peers were out there meeting and marrying other women, and the men who are left over are either players, or they have issues. |
equal probability that OP's single friends are losers too. |
80% of chronic healthcare conditions (including obesity) are caused by poor healthcare conditions. https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1031420.page You can ignore this advice, call it rude, be all offended if you want but: stop eating so much and get in shape. It will improve your chances. |
No, not at all. It’s called a market for a reason. There are many fish in the sea. Don’t waste your time on the crazy ones. |
Can confirm. Also if her family has a history of mental illness. |
Back this up 5 years minimum. Meet no later than 30 to have kids at 35 and 37. |
I was just commenting on the 25-35 decade to find a mate. Obviously 30 would be more ideal but 35 is the latest to meet if you want to get married and have kids. I have a family friend who is a doctor. She isn’t pretty. She isn’t ugly but average with an average build, not fat and not skinny. She is the type of woman that you would not really notice. Her parents thought very highly of her and wanted her to marry well, at least her level. Problem is that men who are at that level will likely marry someone prettier and doesn’t have to be a physician. The parents were so caught up by the fact that the daughter was a doctor. She is 50 and still not married. |
Is this a sock puppet? What’s “not cheery” about asking a basic question about some proper nouns? |
Loved the final twist to this timeline 😂😂 |
Oh FFS. Not everyone with a therapist is mentally ill, and mental illness is a spectrum not black and white. |
Jesus Christ! What the hell did I just read? Are you a Black or Latina female who is speaking from your own experience? |
I didn’t write this but I am Latina and this is somewhat true Our pool is SO small, I need to attend events and network more to be exposed to a larger pool. |
Not a sock puppet as I posted the original joke and didn’t post that. That poster continued the reference. From Mary Poppins: If you want this choice position Have a cheery disposition Rosy cheeks, no warts! Play games, all sort You must be kind, you must be witty Very sweet and fairly pretty Take us on outings, give us treats Sing songs, bring sweets Never be cross or cruel Never give us castor oil or gruel -Jane and Michael Banks It is what this thread made me think of, especially the post listing all the crap they want from a woman. Already done, my friend, you are just living out the dream Disney planted in your head as a kid. |