The deadline of 35 is more your biological clock. 35 is advanced maternal age. Many of my friends had fertility problems and children with special needs definitely seems to occur more with older parents. This is not some fabricated societal marriage deadline. If you want to have a child or multiple children, it is ideal to have them under age 40. |
And if you want to have 2 kids before 40, you need to meet your husband by 35 assuming you want to get to know him before you get married so that may put you at getting married at 37 if you meet at 35. If everything goes right, you can have 2 kids before 40 if you meet at age 35. |
Its #2 in many many cases. So many women I know waited around for 4, 5, 6 years. That's a lot of time to sink into an unsure prospect. I don't have daughters, but if I did, I would discuss the idea of an internal leave clock. I'd cap it at 2 years postgrad. This timing/luck challenge is just not the same for men. |
White men are not the ONLY men not interested in them, there's that. |
They just need to find a man that can handle them. I am a spoiled B and my DH loves that about me. And I love that he has no problem keep me in check or putting me in my place. We have fun. |
It’s this. You can be thebifgest catch in the world, but if you’re in a female dominated industry you’ll have a really hard time. |
^ignore this PP I got the reference and thought you were funny! But then, I have a cheery disposition… |
Can’t “land a proposal”? It’s not a sport. Some women have standards or are busy. Gross. |
Busy is such a lie. You can make time to date if there is a willing partner. DH and I were both very ambitious and worked long hours. We still saw one another plenty even if it was just for sex and sleep. We were both working 60-80 hours each when we got married. |
Biggest red-flag in a woman is mental illness.
If she has a therapist, dump her. |
Educated Black women in DC have a difficult time finding successful, educated, available Black men to marry here. |
Are you really blaming white men for this? |
True. Attractiveness is real. Not being obese is a thing - believe it or not. These are facts. But, if you insist on clinging to what your mommy told you about “real beauty is on the inside; it’s all that matters,” well, I guess you can make that “your truth” ( enjoy all your cats). |
Yes. |
Black women and Asian men are considered to be the least attractive by the opposite sex. Asian men are often well educated and earn a high income so they can offset by money. I also know many amazing single black women. |