This is the best advice on this thread OP. There is no way you’re going to wake up regularly to exercise at 5 while falling asleep at 11-12, unless you’re one of those rare people who survive on 5-6 hours of sleep. Exercise will not add energy or make you less sleepy (yes, regular exercise will you more stamina but it won’t counteract 5 hours of sleep). So unless you’re willing to add hours to your sleep, it won’t work. I do much better exercising either on lunch break or evening. |
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Then you have made your choice, to put your children’s activities over yours. |
This is my average day's schedule:
- Wake up at 3:30 - Go for run or workout in home gym by 4:00. Workout for 1 hour. - Shower and get ready for work. Finish by 5:30. - Make lunches for kids - Get oldest kid up by 6:00, while DH is getting ready for work - Leave for work at 6:20 - Work - Home by 4:15 - Sports, homework, activities with kids after-school - Make/have dinner - Bedtime routine for kids starts at 7:45 (for youngest two) or 8:15 (for oldest) - Everyone may read or sleep (but no electronics) after 8:30 - Everyone hopefully asleep by 9:00-9:30 My Oura ring says I get 5.5 hours of sleep most nights. It's not enough, but I function. |
I go to bed by 10 for a 5:00 wake up and as close to 9:00 as possible for a 4:00 wake up. My kid rows crew and some practices are at 5:00, hence the 4:00 wake up. I don't naturally feel tired at 9 so that's hard and I'm always a little sleep deprived. |
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X1000 OP I also work a hybrid schedule, and on the days I go into the office we have EXTREMELY SIMPLE dinners that take like 10-15 min to get on the table and involve very few dirty dishes. I do sweep the kitchen and eating area nightly -- which takes a mere few minutes -- but of course I don't mop every night! Like the PP, that happens once every two weeks when the cleaning lady comes. Sounds like if you change your dinner/cleaning routine you could find a bunch of time in your day. |
What are you simple dinners that make no mess? |
I make the four-ingredient chili on the back of the McCormick chili spice packet -- it uses one saute pan. Ground beef takes 7 minutes to brown, and then simmers with the other three ingredients - can of diced tomatoes, can of beans, and the spice packet (which get dumped in) for 10 minutes. Serve with typical chili toppings. I take a sheet pan and line it with parchment paper. Put four store bough naans on sheet pan. Spread store bought pesto on each. Tear up chunks of fresh mozzarella ball and put on top. Then put on a handful of spinach on top of that and and finally top with red pepper flakes. Cook in oven for 13 minutes. Voila, pesto spinach flatbreads. Serve with store-bought marinara sauce. Only thing that can't go in dishwasher is the sheet pan. For salads on the sides of meals I use bagged greens mixes, pre-cut veggies, and store-bought vinaigrette, etc. I have plenty of meals like these...you get the idea. |
Op knows damn well how to make a simple dinner. Yet again she just wants to deflect so she can pretend working out and being fit just isn’t possible for her! |
I go to bed at 9 and I get up at 4:30. I wake up, change into exercise clothing, and drink a cup of coffee. At the gym at 5. Home by 6. Walk dogs and online by 7. |
Why not work out for half an hour? 3:30am seems extreme. How do you sleep on weekends? |
You have every excuse in the book. |
I have read this post a few times and still can't figure out what you do from 6-11pm or why what you say you do takes so long.
I workout at 5am 4 mornings a week and go to bed by 9pm. I also work full time, commute and have 2 kids. When there were younger I hit it harder on the weekends so I only had to go to the gym 2-3 weekdays. I also when through a period where I ran while they were in their activities. My house isn't spotless or perfectly organized, and I definitely don't mop every night. We do cook meals from scratch most nights, but pick meals that don't take a ton of time to prep. Often times I cook and my husband does cleanup so some evenings I go for a walk after dinner. Like others have said if it is really a priority you will find time and I do think most people can/could find 30 min a day to do some form of exercise even if it is a walk. |
1) Lower your standards as to fancy home-cooked meals every night (nothing should take more than 30 minutes from raw ingredients to dinner on the table) and to levels of cleanliness.
2) Shove as many chores on the weekend as possible. 3) Prioritize your exercising above children's every single need--it's important for your physical and mental health. 4) Be flexible about when you can exercise--as many, many people have noted here, you can exercise during lunch! On your WFH days (take phone calls while doing a very brisk walk)! On weekends! In the evening instead of taking TWO HOURS to cook and clean! If you really want to find time, you will do so. |