I really enjoyed being pregnant at 37. I experienced a lot of complications that correlate with age and cannot have more kids. If I had had an easy pregnancy, I definitely would have gone for another. I wish I had been ready to have kids earlier in life, but I think I made a good, responsible choice to wait. My grandmothers had healthy babies at 42 and 46 respectively, so I went into my pregnancy feeling pretty comfortable about AMA pregnancies. |
That's nonsense. People discard them with sadness. |
Yes, this poster personally believes this. You do not. That's why this is a PERSONAL choice. If you are horrified by the concept of abortion, then don't have one. |
You must be very please with your definition of "pro-choice", however, it has nothing to do with the actual meaning of the word. If you are pro-choice, then you support women's right to abort their fetuses (for whatever reason) as a matter of policy AND you don't judge them - certainly not harshly - for exercising this right. |
For the same reason you hope your children will go to college, as opposed to be janitors (which I am sure you will loudly proclaim is a noble profession, while taking every possible step for your children to avoid it). Life is full of unexpected challenges anyways which makes it even more prudent to avoid entirely predictable challenges. |
They discard them in fear. They discard them in disgust. They discard them in sadness. They discard them in relief. They discard them in embarrassment. They discard them in impatience and frustration and anxiety. What matters is that they discard them. And annihilating innocent human beings is wrong. |
So it's not enough to have abortion be legal--we also need to sanction any and all reasons for having abortions at any and all stages of pregnancy.
The baby has DS. Or the baby is a girl. The baby is too soon. The baby is too late. The baby is a...nothing. "It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so you may live as you wish." --Mother Teresa |
I like this disingenuous posturing - having a child with DS is right there with baby being a girl or due at inconvenient time. As it happens, of course, a bunch of you support abortion for inconvenience. Abort, no problem, just don't do it for one of the most justifiable reasons ever. |
First off, my apologies to everyone who reads this post except the PP. I generally try to avoid making negative personal attacks on DCUM, but today I will make an exception. PP, I think you misunderstand me. I'm not judging harshly women who choose to have abortions, for whatever reason. I'm judging you harshly for being stupid-for exactly the reason I stated above. Pro-choice means supporting women who chose termination, it also mean supporting women who choose to carry a pregnancy at great risk to their own health, or in a situation where a baby may not survive or may be severely disabled. As a woman who chose to continue a very high risk pregnancy and have an early baby, I know that "the fetus you are carrying is completely replaceable," or "why not terminate this fetus and have a new one that won't incur as many medical costs" are not pro-choice sentiments. If you were able to read some Peter Singer and some of the ethicists who disagree with him, I'm sure we could have an interesting discussion about prenatal and neonatal ethics, but I won't hold my breath. Carry on. |
Wow, Peter Singer - I am impressed! I am not sure what is relevance of his position to your pathetic lecture, but, hey, I only took two classes with him. If you had a philosophical neuron in your minuscule frontal cortex, you would understand that the fact that "you are a woman with high risk pregnancy blah blah blah" bears zero relevance to the question about the meaning of pro-choice. |
PP, I'll bite. Please give us the true definition of pro-choice. |
I strongly disagree with you. In its most basic sense, those who identify with being "pro-choice" support abortion being available as a legal option in our country. Anything beyond that is EXTREMELY personalized and debatable. There are plenty of pro-choice people who do in fact feel that some reasons are acceptable (most would say incest/rape, and life of the mother) while other reasons - sometimes even ALL other reasons - are inexcusable, yet still support free access to abortion as an option merely because outlawing it creates a host of other huge problems. And for me, just because I think it makes most sense for abortion to be legal (thereby making me "pro-choice" in the official sense), does not mean that I don't judge women who choose abortion. I believe abortion to a be a moral evil which is completely ruining the fabric of our society, the strength of families and the dignity of women, and in most cases displays an utter lack of imagination, prudence, love, judgement or accountability. There is absolutely no reason to destroy the life of a DS fetus, who the mother had every intention of carrying to term and giving birth to, when there are literally thousands of families across this country who are willing to parent that baby. Instead, the mothers ego gets in the way and she orders the execution of a baby that is often a matter of weeks away from being able to survive outside her womb. |
Do you have a DS child? If not, just shut up. |
Right, being able to survive outside of womb - with a little help from a zillion dollar equipment and thousands of man-hours. And in the case of DS child, this goes indefinitely. |
Wow, I am feeling a little sorry for the OP, now. The thread is not called: we are anti abortion. |