Whoa you are both super crazy |
Your instinct to check his drawers is smart. It is not immoral and don't let that tool gaslight you. He's been inside your vagina. There is nothing wrong with looking inside a bathroom drawer when you're a guest in his bedroom and use his bathroom.
But your instincts for self-protection are not NEARLY strong enough. You should never, never have trusted a guy you barely met with unprotected sex! You do not need therapy because of lack of trust. You need therapy to realize why you trust TOO MUCH. You need therapy to value your life and health more than some stranger's pleasure. You had good instincts to write here. You k who something is wrong. Please dump this dude. You are worth so much more. |
GASLIGHTER RUN!!!!! |
Did you both get STI testing before rawdogging it? Why are using plan B as birth control? That's not what its for. Both of you need your head checked and he sounds like he's actively trying to get any female pregnant like he has a pregnancy fetish. |
OP, what is your SES? |
The fact that you have trust issues due to having been cheated on doesn't give you license to snoop and go through someone's drawers. Your trust issues are YOUR issues to work on. |
DUMP him now!!! and be more careful and selective in the future. I think we all agree this guy SUCKS!!! |
Yes. Suspicious on his part. |
Get out now. He does not respect you. |
Ok, these are the real red flags. And stand up for yourself. He has been fine with unprotected sex!? Of course he has! But why were you? As Dan Savage says, DTMFA. (You should also work on your trust issues, though.) |
Run away from this guy. Stop having sex with him!!! |
OP here. He makes very good money and is a hard worker, always looking to move up. Kind of the opposite of me tbh. |
I used it once, while waiting for my pills to be sent to me. (Had to wait for an appointment as well). I wouldnt use it again, it was a terrible experience. I felt sick |
OP here, I am on Birth control now. |
OP: seems to be a consensus that the pregnancy test (among other things) are red flags. Still deciding what to do honestly, I really love spending time with him. |