Pregnancy test found in boyfriends room

[Anonymous]

You two sound made for each other!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.

Stop being some rando's cum dumpster and have some self respect. Go work on that before jumping back into the dating pool.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. First sex should have been at his place: why was it always at yours or hotels? It does seem from that he was sleeping with other woman and deciding between you two.
2. He’s extremely careless - I would worry for STDs big time. Are you crazy, OP? Not using protection first sex, did he show you the std test including genital herpes?

I wouldn’t trust him either and in fact I would run from this guy who doesn’t like condoms asap

Fun fact: there is no screening test for genital herpes. You can get a lesion swabbed and know you have it, but there is no way to prove that you don’t.

Of course there is an anti body test for hsv2 - what are you talking about ? If it’s negative the person can’t infect you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.

No wonder he has pregnancy tests lying around.

[Anonymous]

This is why syphilis rates are skyrocketing.

Op, don’t sleep with someone who’s so casual about risking pregnancy or infection with you. And don’t do that to yourself.

[Anonymous]

Troll Score: B-. Graded up for new material.

[Anonymous]

I’m trying to picture the headboard with the shelving, but I don’t think I’ve seen anything like it. Nonetheless, it’s odd that he never noticed the pregnancy test after months in his home, while you spotted it right away (so obviously it was visible). He’s a doofus.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Troll Score: B-. Graded up for new material.

Oh yeah. Did you report it to Jeff?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m trying to picture the headboard with the shelving, but I don’t think I’ve seen anything like it. Nonetheless, it’s odd that he never noticed the pregnancy test after months in his home, while you spotted it right away (so obviously it was visible). He’s a doofus.

^ I mean shelving on the side of headboard facing the wall ^^

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.

WOW. WOW. I'm so glad you aren't my daughter. So careless with your own body!!

[Anonymous]

Girlfriend's leave stuff behind. Panties, sex toys, birth control, dumb self-help books...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Girlfriend's leave stuff behind. Panties, sex toys, birth control, dumb self-help books...

"Abandon hope all ye who enter here" signs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.

No wonder he has pregnancy tests lying around.

This was my thought too. That man should come with a warning label.

I was going to give him the benefit of the doubt until OPs update. These are not the actions of a mature, responsible person and now I think he's gaslighting you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s annoying. I don’t want to hear anything else about this relationship. Please end it

Actually I do need one additional piece of information….OP please confirm for us that he is broke and the level of brokenness. are we talking works at Taco Bell or what we talking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He also said he doesn't know if he wants to be with someone who would go through his stuff like that and not trust him. He said it's making him question my morals. My ex cheated on me and I told him from the start that I have trust issues. This isn't the first thing I haven't trusted. He's getting tired of it.

Red Flag.