(Very) Discreet Nanny Cams

Anonymous
I have been a home daycare provider and also worked in an elementary school for many years. I have believed for a long time that anyone working with children ought to be on camera. Most people will do nothing wrong but the ones that do make it worth whatever the objections are.

I don't think any of the cameras should be hidden or secret. It should just be standard practice. Especially those working with nonverbal kids (infants, toddlers, kids with nonverbal disorders) although even if your kids are verbal there can be stuff happening to them they do not disclose, it's very common among kids who are abused.

Those of you who think that just hiring someone you trust is the answer are delusional. Children have lost their lives or had their lives ruined by "trusted" adults doing horrible things.
Anonymous
Even with cameras in big Centers they still abuse kids lol
Anonymous
If a parent makes a child cry, should we call CPS on them? Lol
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but I think discret cameras are worth the investment.


I agree. I did what people suggested and hired an experienced seemingly kind woman who abused my kids. I was suspicious pretty quickly because of things I saw. She ignored them and stuck them in activity seats for hours. They screamed and cried and she dragged one out of his seat roughly because she couldn't hear the person she was on the phone with.


I agree. Not with cameras but I caught a bad nanny feeding my baby and another baby with the same spoon. Nasty b. Fired on the spot.


Like you wouldn't feed your baby from the same spoon that fell ... Bunch of hypocrites
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but I think discret cameras are worth the investment.


I agree. I did what people suggested and hired an experienced seemingly kind woman who abused my kids. I was suspicious pretty quickly because of things I saw. She ignored them and stuck them in activity seats for hours. They screamed and cried and she dragged one out of his seat roughly because she couldn't hear the person she was on the phone with.


I agree. Not with cameras but I caught a bad nanny feeding my baby and another baby with the same spoon. Nasty b. Fired on the spot.


Like you wouldn't feed your baby from the same spoon that fell ... Bunch of hypocrites

Yes

Yeah, the “nasty b” in that scenario wasn’t the nanny.
Anonymous
Many pedos probably has videos of your kids
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but I think discret cameras are worth the investment.


I agree. I did what people suggested and hired an experienced seemingly kind woman who abused my kids. I was suspicious pretty quickly because of things I saw. She ignored them and stuck them in activity seats for hours. They screamed and cried and she dragged one out of his seat roughly because she couldn't hear the person she was on the phone with.


I agree. Not with cameras but I caught a bad nanny feeding my baby and another baby with the same spoon. Nasty b. Fired on the spot.


Ok, so nothing to do with the subject of the thread.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but I think discret cameras are worth the investment.


I agree. I did what people suggested and hired an experienced seemingly kind woman who abused my kids. I was suspicious pretty quickly because of things I saw. She ignored them and stuck them in activity seats for hours. They screamed and cried and she dragged one out of his seat roughly because she couldn't hear the person she was on the phone with.


I agree. Not with cameras but I caught a bad nanny feeding my baby and another baby with the same spoon. Nasty b. Fired on the spot.


Like you wouldn't feed your baby from the same spoon that fell ... Bunch of hypocrites


NP. What?! Sharing food utensils between any humans is a bit gross but especially bad with babies for many reasons. Health, mouth bacteria, respect...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but I think discret cameras are worth the investment.


I agree. I did what people suggested and hired an experienced seemingly kind woman who abused my kids. I was suspicious pretty quickly because of things I saw. She ignored them and stuck them in activity seats for hours. They screamed and cried and she dragged one out of his seat roughly because she couldn't hear the person she was on the phone with.


I agree. Not with cameras but I caught a bad nanny feeding my baby and another baby with the same spoon. Nasty b. Fired on the spot.


Like you wouldn't feed your baby from the same spoon that fell ... Bunch of hypocrites


NP. What?! Sharing food utensils between any humans is a bit gross but especially bad with babies for many reasons. Health, mouth bacteria, respect...


Gentle exposure promoted healthy gut and anti-allergen.

Babies even suck on sweaty boobs!
Anonymous
If I was a nanny I wouldn’t mind at all that there are cameras as I would completely understand the need to make sure your kid is being watched and protected properly. However I would expect my employer to be 100% transparent with me about where they were located because if they are going to be dishonest with me in one area who is to say that they wouldn’t be dishonest with me in other areas? Why stop there?

It doesn’t make for a good employer/employee relationship to be dishonest.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If a parent makes a child cry, should we call CPS on them? Lol


Yes.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not OP, but I think discret cameras are worth the investment.


I agree. I did what people suggested and hired an experienced seemingly kind woman who abused my kids. I was suspicious pretty quickly because of things I saw. She ignored them and stuck them in activity seats for hours. They screamed and cried and she dragged one out of his seat roughly because she couldn't hear the person she was on the phone with.


I agree. Not with cameras but I caught a bad nanny feeding my baby and another baby with the same spoon. Nasty b. Fired on the spot.


Like you wouldn't feed your baby from the same spoon that fell ... Bunch of hypocrites


NP. What?! Sharing food utensils between any humans is a bit gross but especially bad with babies for many reasons. Health, mouth bacteria, respect...

Respect?!

Wait til you see what happens with toys babies like to chew.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You have to tell the nanny that you have cameras. Don’t be sneaky. Treat them with respect.


This is what I would do.

Because if you do use hidden cameras, then not offer full disclosure to your Nanny….and she finds out later she likely will leave the position on the spot.

Rightfully so. After all, you would have started the relationship based on a deception.
And that is NEVER a good thing.

Do not be sneaky OP.

Offer full disclosure from the beginning on any + all cameras that you will have in the home.

This will establish goodwill on your part and will create an excellent Parent/Nanny relationship. 🤝🏽
Anonymous
Some dads likes seeing the nanny through the camera
Anonymous
Hackers can see through them and talk
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