Has sibling asked for help? If not, you stay out it and respect boundaries. If sibling has asked for help, what type of help? |
Why are you taking this on? Does your sister blame you or your family for her poor decisions? I’m speaking from a situation I know where the mother blames her siblings and parents entirely for marrying a deadbeat because “nobody told me not to marry him.” |
She asks for money all of the time. Sometimes I provide specific things for the kids (school supplies, shoes, that kind of thing). But I want to help in a way that improves the conditions long-term. I am not in a position to provide entirely for the kids. |
She needs to get a damn job. Child support is not for HER living expenses, it’s for the kids’ clothes, activities, enrichment, partial living expenses. |
Great, then she can get a job and apply her knowledge and skills. And get paid for it! |
Seems like the opposite situation here. Wonder why they divorced..?.. |