OP here. We have a prenup. She won’t get 50% or anywhere close to it if we ever divorced ( which we won’t). |
Ok now I am pretty sure you are a troll. |
She gave birth 6 months ago. Who cares? Pregnancy isn’t some type of disability. She’s still able to be a fully functioning adult. |
+1. Men no longer want to get married and so can blame them. Men do the worst in divorces. |
You sound lazy too. OPs wife has a nanny, daycare, and spends very little time with her kids, all while OP works more than FT, does most of the cooking and cleaning, and cares for the kids almost an equal amount as his wife. All while barely sleeping but his lazy wife sleeps well all night and naps while a nanny cares for her kid. She’s lazy. |
OP never changed his story. He added onto his original post and defended his wife when people called her lazy and a bad mother. |
What does a good woman do? OP has to do everything as a man, but his wife gets to live a pampered life because she’s a woman. |
OP here. No. Prenup is the way to go. My dad had his own business and my mom signed a prenup. Most of my friends have prenups. We decided to have a prenup because we both had assets that we wanted to protect if ever there is a divorce. |
This was your tipping point! |
Do you really want to defend a misogynistic incells troll? |
In what world does OP’s wife spend very little time with her kids? These people on here are the ones who are nuts. My kids are all school aged now but still remember those baby and toddler days and they were brutal. |
I've always had a really difficult, 80+ hour a week brutal career, so yes, being home with kids was easy. I considered having a third to get another 6+ months maternity leave just to get a break but decided against it for longer term considerations. |