If you got your mistress pregnant...

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[Post New]09/02/2013 14:47
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Anonymous
Do you pressure her to get an abortion or do you bite the bullet and be a man and take responsibility for your actions. This is just a hypothetical.
[Post New]09/02/2013 14:50
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Anonymous
You tell her you will support her decision but you believe in signs. Then you put abortion pamphlets on her car for a week and pray.
[Post New]09/02/2013 14:55
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Anonymous
Well, you're not much of a man in the first place (having had the affair) so I guess it doesn't matter either way.
[Post New]09/02/2013 14:56
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Anonymous
Pay her a large amount of money to get an abortion.
[Post New]09/02/2013 14:59
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Anonymous
It's her choice to keep the child or not. If she decides to keep it, why should you pay for her choice?
[Post New]09/02/2013 15:19
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Anonymous
It is her choice whether or not to keep the child. You can decide how involved you want to be in the child's life but ultimately pressuring her to abort is not going to be helpful whatever she chooses.
[Post New]09/02/2013 15:29
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It's her choice to keep the child or not. If she decides to keep it, why should you pay for her choice?


Gee, I don't know. Maybe because you participated in getting her pregnant in the first place?
[Post New]09/02/2013 15:50
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It's her choice to keep the child or not. If she decides to keep it, why should you pay for her choice?


Because he chose to engage in the act (sex) which created the child. In this act woman assumes the risk of pregnancy (and ultimately the risk of lifetime responsibility for the child) while the man assumes the risk of lifetime financial obligation. Those are the terms of their (a married man and his mistress') unwritten sexual contract.
[Post New]09/02/2013 15:51
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You tell her you will support her decision but you believe in signs. Then you put abortion pamphlets on her car for a week and pray.


Lolz. Now would also be the time to tell her all about your family's very strong history of mental illness and ugly children.
[Post New]09/02/2013 16:23
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Anonymous
If she was smart, no amount of money offered would be worth it. Could have the kid and be set. If the guy is going to look after himself first, so should she. She's the one in power. Honestly, it would be worth it to ruin h's life over being a nasty slore.

[Post New]09/02/2013 16:24
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If she was smart, no amount of money offered would be worth it. Could have the kid and be set. If the guy is going to look after himself first, so should she. She's the one in power. Honestly, it would be worth it to ruin h's life over being a nasty slore.



*his
[Post New]09/02/2013 16:26
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Anonymous
As a woman who was married to a man who got his mistress pregnant I think the best thing to do is own up to it and plan on parenting your child to the best of your ability. I have a lot of hatred toward the situation, but NEVER have anything but love towards to child.
[Post New]09/02/2013 16:27
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As a woman who was married to a man who got his mistress pregnant I think the best thing to do is own up to it and plan on parenting your child to the best of your ability. I have a lot of hatred toward the situation, but NEVER have anything but love towards to child.


There is a reason he stepped outside his marriage...
[Post New]09/02/2013 16:36
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As a woman who was married to a man who got his mistress pregnant I think the best thing to do is own up to it and plan on parenting your child to the best of your ability. I have a lot of hatred toward the situation, but NEVER have anything but love towards to child.


There is a reason he stepped outside his marriage...


Because he is a nasty douche? Don't blame the non cheater for the cheating.
[Post New]09/02/2013 17:20
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As a woman who was married to a man who got his mistress pregnant I think the best thing to do is own up to it and plan on parenting your child to the best of your ability. I have a lot of hatred toward the situation, but NEVER have anything but love towards to child.


There is a reason he stepped outside his marriage...


Because he is a nasty douche? Don't blame the non cheater for the cheating.


What one lacks, another bitch will make up for.
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