That's really no more true than viewing a "slutty" woman as okay to rape. Some men and some women cheat. It's within themselves. Some people have character; others don't. |
only an idiot gets his mistress pregnant |
I bite the bullet. I will not be party to murdering an unborn child. It's not the kids fault I fooled around. |
My friend is the other woman in that situation. She took the guy to court and gets child support. She doesn't think the wife knows anything about it. Her daughter is 10 now. She never has seen her father. |
A legal medical procedure isn't called murder. |
Doesn't seem like she's missing out, when her sperm donor is a man too shamed to see his child. |
I was the "mistress". I decided to have an abortion. He didn't pressure me either way. He said he supported whatever I decided to do. |
I say once you knock her up, the ball is in her court now. You can always advise her on what you want her to do, but ultimately the decision is hers and hers alone.
If she chooses to abort the baby, then she should be able to do it w/out any pressure by you. If she chooses to keep it, then by all means, it is time to come clean and man up. You will have to disclose the affair to your family and plan on being a father to this child for the rest of your life. All of this is hypothetical of course. |
hey, if you're going to be a-cheating, why not flaunt it? Knock up your wife too. |
This "medical procedure" is murder, you goober. |
This is why all married men done having kids should hav gotten vasectomies.
It's not his choice. He certainly is allowed to say how he feels about it, but he has never a right to pressure for an abortion. |
Idiot. All married men shouldn't cheat. |
The trolliest of the trolls. |
Yes, the father is a nasty good for nothing, but hello OF COURSE the poor girl is missing out! The world (incl DCUM!) is full of women with esteem issues and relationship issues because of situations like this. Growing up as the unwanted, secret daughter of a cheating slime ball? Yes, she's still missing out. An open, public, actual relationship with the slime all is still gonna be better than nothing 95% of the time. |
Or she did cheat. Blow jobs on divorce attorneys count as cheating |