Help! My Neighbor Has a Huge Crush on Me!
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Anonymous
| If he is 32 and living with his mother, he is almost certainly mental in some way. Telling his mother is probably not a bad idea. |
Anonymous
| when he just shows up, ask him if he's stalking you |
Anonymous
This is genius! I mean here is why: 1. Non-confrontational so it won't trigger the crazy. 2. Complete turn off 3. Makes him think he could be harmed by having sex with the OP It is very disarming and might repulse the guy. So what if the neighbors gossip...makes creepo move on. |
Anonymous
| Restraining order if talking to him & his parents doesn't help & a robust security system. Guy sounds nutso. |
Anonymous
| I would voice concerns to mot her and directly ask if he has mental health issues, call report to police. Tell friends. Carry mace, or something. Make a male friend in the bldg to escort u at night or females but basically power in numbers. |
Anonymous
| Does the apartment complex have a no harassment clause in their lease? I'd directly tell the guy you feel uncomfortable and ask him to stop. If that doesn't put an immediate stop to it, I'd let his parents know you've alerted the police that you're worried you're being stalked and then go to the rental office to file your complaint. It's probably a violation of something from him to follow you around everywhere when you've said no. |
Anonymous
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Only thing that scares crazy is crazier.
Next time he just happens to "show up" when you're checking your mail, taking out the garbage, etc. act like you don't see him initially and when he says something FREAK OUT LIKE YOU JUST GOT OUT OF ST. ELIZABETH'S!! Kick him square in the nuts then run off screaming bloody murder - - - bet you his ass will be having 2nd thoughts about being enamored with you. |
Anonymous
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Be direct with him and calm but firm "I said "no" and I will always say "no." I am not interested in a relationship with you. You are making me uncomfortable by constantly asking. Leave me alone."
If this doesn't work mention to his parents that you are uncomfortable (provided they seem reasonable). Start a paper trail by the non-emergency police number. Carry pepper spray. |