DH wants me to cheat

[Anonymous]

It's not cheating if it is what he wants you to do and he is there. It's pretty sick, but it's not cheating. If you decide to do it hire a professional who will make it worthwhile.

[Anonymous]

I don't know that I'd call it sick. I've done this with a few couples and all seemed to be having fun. 2 guys can satisfy 1 woman better than 1 man can satisfy 2 women.
Having said that, if you don't want to do it, don't do it. Coercion is never fun.
you could try some scenarios with toys, etc, that would make it like there were 2 guys working on you.

[Anonymous]

Do it for the team.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know that I'd call it sick. I've done this with a few couples and all seemed to be having fun. 2 guys can satisfy 1 woman better than 1 man can satisfy 2 women.
Having said that, if you don't want to do it, don't do it. Coercion is never fun.
you could try some scenarios with toys, etc, that would make it like there were 2 guys working on you.

It sounds like he wants a hot wife situation not a threesome, two completely different things.

[Anonymous]

People have weird things, maybe you could consider role playing it or talking about it as fiction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d never do this but role playing can be fun. A few times we’ve stay at a very nice hotel and my husband would head to the bar and then I’d show up pretty glammed up and pretend I’d hit on him. I barely drink but I’d have two and start rubbing his leg and we’d soon head to the elevator and up to our room where the sex would be fantastic. I guess it was our way of having a ONS while remaining monogamous. We’re too old now to pull that off but it was fun pretending to be someone we’re not.

You sound like fun!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is one of the most common sexual fantasies out there. Some men just like the fantasy/role play; a much smaller percentage actually want to do it.

As others have said, you shouldn’t feel obligated to do anything you don’t feel comfortable with sexually. But if your concern isn’t whether DH’s kink is somehow outside the bounds of normalcy, definitely not. It’s pretty vanilla honestly.

Most men do not have c&ck fetishes, come on!

Not every guy that does this is a cuck.
Look up stag/vixen.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think he wants you to cheat.
I think he wants to watch when you are doing it.

[Anonymous]

Not cheating. Not sick. Just not for everybody.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He either watches too much porn or he's looking for a way to divorce you.

It's all the porn these men watch these days - so much nasty stuff.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d never do this but role playing can be fun. A few times we’ve stay at a very nice hotel and my husband would head to the bar and then I’d show up pretty glammed up and pretend I’d hit on him. I barely drink but I’d have two and start rubbing his leg and we’d soon head to the elevator and up to our room where the sex would be fantastic. I guess it was our way of having a ONS while remaining monogamous. We’re too old now to pull that off but it was fun pretending to be someone we’re not.

Not too old

[Anonymous]

Does he want to cheat?

[Anonymous]

Many high profile evangelical figures have been outed as into this fetish, even with the pool boy, as trope-ish as it sounds. They like to watch from closets, video, photograph. Is he hyper-religious or otherwise repressed in other areas?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes it is a cue for role play. Very healthy for monogamous couples.

Op go the role play route. Tell him some Peggy Bundy ish like he’s the best

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He either watches too much porn or he's looking for a way to divorce you.

It's all the porn these men watch these days - so much nasty stuff.

It’s not the porn. And what is nasty to you may not be to others. I don’t watch porn and like a variety of what most people would consider kinky luckily I have a like minded DH who respects and loves me the way I am.