Men who steal women’s fertility

[Anonymous]

The best fathers I know are teachers. They love kids and are devoted to their own.

Women -- start pursuing teachers, particularity secondary teachers. In the DMV they are all highly educated and many have multiple higher degrees.

Jennifer A should have found a teacher to marry.

[Anonymous]

You have a solid 15 years to find someone to have children with or have on your own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The Jennifer Anniston story reminds me of this. So many times a man wastes a woman’s time only to divorce or leave her in her 30s and childless. While the man goes on to marry and have children the woman is left robbed of her fertile and out of time to have kids of her own.

This is criminal!

Well, not criminal but cruel for sure. Women also need to be better aware of red flags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you want to have a child, have a child. This is not 1950.

These types if women continue to convince me that they still look at men as an ATM machine.

---SMC, (2) IUIs at 37 and became a mom at 38

Aniston didn't need an ATM. She has her own ATM but many people want to give kids a loving and traditional two parent support system.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This happened to me.

Well I’m in a marriage where I haven’t had a child yet due to lack of interest and cooperation from my husband. Now I’m too terrified to leave as bow can I divorce, fall in love and have a baby with rapidly declining fertility?

I did it, and had a baby at 41. Was married 1st time at 30, divorced 35, remarried 37, and used IVF. My marriage is very good and my child is total perfection. I knew when I divorced at 35 that I might head into single and child-free forever. I thought it was the most likely outcome, and accepted it. That outcome was better than staying with that guy, my 1st husband, who was not terrible but did not want to have sex with me, did not want to grow up, made very little money, was resentful as I became more successful, and again, did not want to have sex with me. But we were really great friends!! Anyway, it took a lot to divorce him, because I loved him, and hated the failure. I did it though, and the results are spectacular: a husband who wants sex too much, makes loads of money, and I have my one and only, amazing and incredible, little boy who has changed my life.

I'm so happy for you!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I (42) never wanted to have children, but I love to talk to my many male friends about this topic.

They are all in agreement that once they reached 30-35 every woman they met looked at them like they were some kind of sperm donor. Many of them had no intention of becoming fathers yet -- if at all.

If all the men who were persuing me looked at me like I was a broodmare, I would be running too.

I, also, 42, was told by obgyn and primary doctor it's not too late

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This happened to me.

lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Totally immoral to date a woman in her late 20’s or 30’s for more than a year with no ring. But women need to show these men the door, not hang around hoping it works out.

Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This happened to me.

Me too. I always knew I wanted kids. My husband said he wanted kids. He knew I would never have married a man who didn't want kids. Many years later, he revealed that his plan from the start was to convince me to change my mind.

This is just plain cruel. Sorry that you experienced this. How are you today?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This happened to me.

Me too. I always knew I wanted kids. My husband said he wanted kids. He knew I would never have married a man who didn't want kids. Many years later, he revealed that his plan from the start was to convince me to change my mind.

This is just plain cruel. Sorry that you experienced this. How are you today?

This should be grounds for a lawsuit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. I admit to stealing women’s fertility. I’m like the hamburglar but with uteruses, and now, I see that I have been found out. I’m off to find another devious way to harm women. My next scam is to put plastic dishes on the bottom shelf of the dishwasher - they’ll be warped just like the patriarchy! ***laughs in evil***

Not as funny as you think, but I get your point that the premeditated intent is not necessarily there. But men know biology too. It’s lazy, careless, and, yes, cruel to burn through a woman’s fertility window while you know you still have more time to have offspring. It’s like telling someone you can drive when you cant and then driving them into an accident. They are left permanently injured while you walk away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Totally immoral to date a woman in her late 20’s or 30’s for more than a year with no ring. But women need to show these men the door, not hang around hoping it works out.

It's only immoral if the woman is interested in marriage. Assuming every woman wants to get married or that Jennifer Aniston didn't have kids because Brad Pitt stole her best year are ridiculous assumption that attempt to protect women to the point they actually become sexist. We have no idea if she was already having fertility issues when she was with Brad Pitt.

[Anonymous]

Better not to have children with someone who doesn’t love you or is in the spectrum. Run away at the first sign and continue with your life.

[Anonymous]

A man who forces a pregnancy on you is much worse. Happened to me.

These women can leave when action is not happening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get out of here with this garbage. A woman can leave a man at any time, for any reason, or even for no reason at all. You can even leave him at any time if you're married to him right now. And in that case, when you leave, he has to pay you money! It is literally impossible for him to steal your time or your fertility because you have total control over it.

If you can't get pregnant then that's on you. If he is refusing to make you pregnant - there's the door right there. Walk out now, he can't stop you.

I agree with this but men don’t have to pay you money. Similar earnings mean you don’t get a dime.