Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This happened to me.
Well I’m in a marriage where I haven’t had a child yet due to lack of interest and cooperation from my husband. Now I’m too terrified to leave as bow can I divorce, fall in love and have a baby with rapidly declining fertility?
I did it, and had a baby at 41. Was married 1st time at 30, divorced 35, remarried 37, and used IVF. My marriage is very good and my child is total perfection. I knew when I divorced at 35 that I might head into single and child-free forever. I thought it was the most likely outcome, and accepted it. That outcome was better than staying with that guy, my 1st husband, who was not terrible but did not want to have sex with me, did not want to grow up, made very little money, was resentful as I became more successful, and again, did not want to have sex with me. But we were really great friends!! Anyway, it took a lot to divorce him, because I loved him, and hated the failure. I did it though, and the results are spectacular: a husband who wants sex too much, makes loads of money, and I have my one and only, amazing and incredible, little boy who has changed my life.