Partner said I’m not super attractive

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

Evolution has failed me. 😂😂

Never change, DCUM, never change!

Op, dump the guy. Your boobs are amazing!

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing.

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You wanted to be objectified for your big boobs? Sounds like you put him in a trick bag where he’s the bad guy either way. He’s with you. If he wasn’t attracted to things about you he wouldn’t be with you.

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing.

Thank you, PP- you said it all. I have enhanced boobs (size C with smallest implant I could possibly find). All I needed was to fix the damage after breastfeeding. It 100% improved my confidence and I’m very happy for my choice. They objectively look great, very natural and my partner always compliments them. He never criticized them before the surgery, but now they definitely get more attention from him.
I’m also a feminist, liberal democrat and donate to multiple gender equality causes every year.

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Anonymous wrote:You wanted to be objectified for your big boobs? Sounds like you put him in a trick bag where he’s the bad guy either way. He’s with you. If he wasn’t attracted to things about you he wouldn’t be with you.

Come on, when having sex/a sexual moment with a partner there is really no instance where it’s appropriate to negatively compare them to past partners or porn stars. Also, I think during sex is one time where a lot of people are ok with being “objectified”. Tell the woman she has amazing tits and enjoy your time together, for goodness sake

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Anonymous wrote:You wanted to be objectified for your big boobs? Sounds like you put him in a trick bag where he’s the bad guy either way. He’s with you. If he wasn’t attracted to things about you he wouldn’t be with you.

Come on, when having sex/a sexual moment with a partner there is really no instance where it’s appropriate to negatively compare them to past partners or porn stars. Also, I think during sex is one time where a lot of people are ok with being “objectified”. Tell the woman she has amazing tits and enjoy your time together, for goodness sake

I love being objectified during sex, bring his dirty wh…, a tight P… etc. it turns me on when a man is vocal that way during the act. Nothing wrong with OP. He could have said her boobs are just like that porn star to compliment her in that way. If he loved her, of course. But he doesn’t and she did the right thing breaking up

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Anonymous wrote:You wanted to be objectified for your big boobs? Sounds like you put him in a trick bag where he’s the bad guy either way. He’s with you. If he wasn’t attracted to things about you he wouldn’t be with you.

Come on, when having sex/a sexual moment with a partner there is really no instance where it’s appropriate to negatively compare them to past partners or porn stars. Also, I think during sex is one time where a lot of people are ok with being “objectified”. Tell the woman she has amazing tits and enjoy your time together, for goodness sake

I love being objectified during sex, bring his dirty wh…, a tight P… etc. it turns me on when a man is vocal that way during the act. Nothing wrong with OP. He could have said her boobs are just like that porn star to compliment her in that way. If he loved her, of course. But he doesn’t and she did the right thing breaking up

Same. Not sure how pp sees this as a “trick question”. I can’t imagine saying “this feels so good, you’re so big. But I’ve seen and had better, but this is fine though”. So mean and what a way to kill the mood.

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing.

Thank you, PP- you said it all. I have enhanced boobs (size C with smallest implant I could possibly find). All I needed was to fix the damage after breastfeeding. It 100% improved my confidence and I’m very happy for my choice. They objectively look great, very natural and my partner always compliments them. He never criticized them before the surgery, but now they definitely get more attention from him.
I’m also a feminist, liberal democrat and donate to multiple gender equality causes every year.

Lol, feminist!?! Ha, ha! I’m giggling out loud all those labels you use to describe yourself as progressive and egalitarian, but still you succumbed to undergoing repeated surgeries (those little silicon bags leak, bubba) to “fix” a perfectly healthy body part. Yeah, you’re a feminist, chica. Sure, sure.

Maybe you should figure out why you base your self-esteem on your tits. And why you were upset by them looking they way they should look after doing what they were meant to do (feed young children).

You ain’t no feminist

—signed a true Libertarian feminist who despises so-called liberals and donates to multiple causes each year

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Anonymous wrote:You wanted to be objectified for your big boobs? Sounds like you put him in a trick bag where he’s the bad guy either way. He’s with you. If he wasn’t attracted to things about you he wouldn’t be with you.

Come on, when having sex/a sexual moment with a partner there is really no instance where it’s appropriate to negatively compare them to past partners or porn stars. Also, I think during sex is one time where a lot of people are ok with being “objectified”. Tell the woman she has amazing tits and enjoy your time together, for goodness sake

I love being objectified during sex, bring his dirty wh…, a tight P… etc. it turns me on when a man is vocal that way during the act. Nothing wrong with OP. He could have said her boobs are just like that porn star to compliment her in that way. If he loved her, of course. But he doesn’t and she did the right thing breaking up

Same. Not sure how pp sees this as a “trick question”. I can’t imagine saying “this feels so good, you’re so big. But I’ve seen and had better, but this is fine though”. So mean and what a way to kill the mood.

That's hilariously horrible, great analogy

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing.

Thank you, PP- you said it all. I have enhanced boobs (size C with smallest implant I could possibly find). All I needed was to fix the damage after breastfeeding. It 100% improved my confidence and I’m very happy for my choice. They objectively look great, very natural and my partner always compliments them. He never criticized them before the surgery, but now they definitely get more attention from him.
I’m also a feminist, liberal democrat and donate to multiple gender equality causes every year.

Lol, feminist!?! Ha, ha! I’m giggling out loud all those labels you use to describe yourself as progressive and egalitarian, but still you succumbed to undergoing repeated surgeries (those little silicon bags leak, bubba) to “fix” a perfectly healthy body part. Yeah, you’re a feminist, chica. Sure, sure.

Maybe you should figure out why you base your self-esteem on your tits. And why you were upset by them looking they way they should look after doing what they were meant to do (feed young children).

You ain’t no feminist

—signed a true Libertarian feminist who despises so-called liberals and donates to multiple causes each year

DP
You're both using a lot of unrelated labels. I think like makeup, hair dye, tattoos, and materialist concerns, this has nothing to do with politics. Plenty of strong feminists and antifeminists alike see this addition to the body as grotesque and many others as empowering. I don't think it can be part of the political spectrum if both opinions reside all across, it's not home, legal and workplace equality. It's a superficial opinion that shouldn't bother anyone if they are confident in their decisions.

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing.

Thank you, PP- you said it all. I have enhanced boobs (size C with smallest implant I could possibly find). All I needed was to fix the damage after breastfeeding. It 100% improved my confidence and I’m very happy for my choice. They objectively look great, very natural and my partner always compliments them. He never criticized them before the surgery, but now they definitely get more attention from him.
I’m also a feminist, liberal democrat and donate to multiple gender equality causes every year.

Lol, feminist!?! Ha, ha! I’m giggling out loud all those labels you use to describe yourself as progressive and egalitarian, but still you succumbed to undergoing repeated surgeries (those little silicon bags leak, bubba) to “fix” a perfectly healthy body part. Yeah, you’re a feminist, chica. Sure, sure.

Maybe you should figure out why you base your self-esteem on your tits. And why you were upset by them looking they way they should look after doing what they were meant to do (feed young children).

You ain’t no feminist

—signed a true Libertarian feminist who despises so-called liberals and donates to multiple causes each year

DP
You're both using a lot of unrelated labels. I think like makeup, hair dye, tattoos, and materialist concerns, this has nothing to do with politics. Plenty of strong feminists and antifeminists alike see this addition to the body as grotesque and many others as empowering. I don't think it can be part of the political spectrum if both opinions reside all across, it's not home, legal and workplace equality. It's a superficial opinion that shouldn't bother anyone if they are confident in their decisions.

I’m PP, I was making fun of the insecure lady who got her boobs done, who labeled herself as a “feminist, liberal democrat who donates to multiple gender causes.” I was being sarcastic, when bringing up my politics, but the truth is that anyone who ties her self worth to the size of her breasts and who would undergo multiple surgeries on her perfectly healthy breasts to appeal to an aesthetic is not a feminist. PERIOD.

She’s an insecure superficial lady who cares deeply about what others think. I’d say that’s the antithesis of what feminism stands for.

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing.

Thank you, PP- you said it all. I have enhanced boobs (size C with smallest implant I could possibly find). All I needed was to fix the damage after breastfeeding. It 100% improved my confidence and I’m very happy for my choice. They objectively look great, very natural and my partner always compliments them. He never criticized them before the surgery, but now they definitely get more attention from him.
I’m also a feminist, liberal democrat and donate to multiple gender equality causes every year.

Lol, feminist!?! Ha, ha! I’m giggling out loud all those labels you use to describe yourself as progressive and egalitarian, but still you succumbed to undergoing repeated surgeries (those little silicon bags leak, bubba) to “fix” a perfectly healthy body part. Yeah, you’re a feminist, chica. Sure, sure.

Maybe you should figure out why you base your self-esteem on your tits. And why you were upset by them looking they way they should look after doing what they were meant to do (feed young children).

You ain’t no feminist

—signed a true Libertarian feminist who despises so-called liberals and donates to multiple causes each year

I’m all for body autonomy - tattoos , surgery, gaining weight, losing weight, but it’s f&cked mentality (culturally supported sadly!) that breastfeeding “damages” boobs. Or that saggy boobs are strange or wrong or something to be “fixed.” Who benefits from this narrative? And who is hurt? Oh - maybe the millions of women who are filled with shame, denying themselves pleasure, limiting their lives because of their bodies? Plastic surgeons? #saggyboobsmatter (look it up - she is a fascinating woman!!)

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Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse!

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc.

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive.

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS?

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions. Weird definition of a bully. Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position. Sad.

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times.
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ?

DP

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs. You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t. Deal with it.

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way. Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices. And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line. And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing.

Thank you, PP- you said it all. I have enhanced boobs (size C with smallest implant I could possibly find). All I needed was to fix the damage after breastfeeding. It 100% improved my confidence and I’m very happy for my choice. They objectively look great, very natural and my partner always compliments them. He never criticized them before the surgery, but now they definitely get more attention from him.
I’m also a feminist, liberal democrat and donate to multiple gender equality causes every year.

Lol, feminist!?! Ha, ha! I’m giggling out loud all those labels you use to describe yourself as progressive and egalitarian, but still you succumbed to undergoing repeated surgeries (those little silicon bags leak, bubba) to “fix” a perfectly healthy body part. Yeah, you’re a feminist, chica. Sure, sure.

Maybe you should figure out why you base your self-esteem on your tits. And why you were upset by them looking they way they should look after doing what they were meant to do (feed young children).

You ain’t no feminist

—signed a true Libertarian feminist who despises so-called liberals and donates to multiple causes each year

DP
You're both using a lot of unrelated labels. I think like makeup, hair dye, tattoos, and materialist concerns, this has nothing to do with politics. Plenty of strong feminists and antifeminists alike see this addition to the body as grotesque and many others as empowering. I don't think it can be part of the political spectrum if both opinions reside all across, it's not home, legal and workplace equality. It's a superficial opinion that shouldn't bother anyone if they are confident in their decisions.

DP. I don't want to see the expectations on physical appearance for women rise even higher to include surgery to appear as "perfect" as possible. As something becomes part of the culture, it becomes part of the norm. For example, tons of people go gray in their 30-40s but it is very rare for society to accept a woman who choses to do so. I am whatever label embraces that concept.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He is definitely more attractive than I am. He gets hit on quite a bit. I’m cute but definitely not hot. Im also the least attractive of all his girlfriends.

It just hurts me. I don’t want to with a partner who feels they don’t love all of me.

It is not a deal breaker that he thinks those things. Obviously of all his prior partners, you had the total package he sought,

The problem is why he would say that? What was the context? Were you really probing for an answer.

If did not push him on it, I would really question trusting this guy with my feelings.

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Anonymous wrote:My partner let it slip last night that he has never found me super attractive. He said I’m attractive and sexy but not hot or physically beautiful. He said he’s still very attracted to me. I have been told I have very nice big breasts - which I thought he loved - but he said they are nice but not the best. This has devastated me - I want my partner to feel like I’m super attractive and he loves my body. I’m thinking of parting ways with him but I’m not sure if I’m overreacting.

You better shape up, to keep your partner satisfied.