If I call CPS

Anonymous
If you're willing to call, you should be willing to own up to it if they find out it's you. Calling CPS is a big deal for the family you call about. So either it's something that needs to be reported, in which case you're fine putting your name to that, or it isn't, and you don't want anyone to know your name for that reason. I am a firm believer in calling if a call seems necessary but I'm also a believer in owning it if you call.
Anonymous
I'd suggest trying to call the child's school. Give their name and see if a counselor can talk to the child
Would that work? People on here that work in this field or at a school?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you're willing to call, you should be willing to own up to it if they find out it's you. Calling CPS is a big deal for the family you call about. So either it's something that needs to be reported, in which case you're fine putting your name to that, or it isn't, and you don't want anyone to know your name for that reason. I am a firm believer in calling if a call seems necessary but I'm also a believer in owning it if you call.


+1

Anonymous
I am a mandated reporter who makes 1-2 reports/week.

1. They don't tell who made the report, and in some cases it is very evident, in other cases it isn't. I have families mad at me because they think I called (I didn't, but won't disclose who did, if I know.)

2. Not all calls are investigated. Some calls get screened out. Some calls are taken as I&R calls (information and referral.) But even if a case isn't opened, the report is documented in case they get additional/future calls there will be a paper trail of reports.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am a mandated reporter who makes 1-2 reports/week.

1. They don't tell who made the report, and in some cases it is very evident, in other cases it isn't. I have families mad at me because they think I called (I didn't, but won't disclose who did, if I know.)

2. Not all calls are investigated. Some calls get screened out. Some calls are taken as I&R calls (information and referral.) But even if a case isn't opened, the report is documented in case they get additional/future calls there will be a paper trail of reports.


Not true. To what jurisdiction are you referring? Where we live, CPS is mandated by law to go out and investigate, which involves ALL members of the household AND the school.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a mandated reporter who makes 1-2 reports/week.

1. They don't tell who made the report, and in some cases it is very evident, in other cases it isn't. I have families mad at me because they think I called (I didn't, but won't disclose who did, if I know.)

2. Not all calls are investigated. Some calls get screened out. Some calls are taken as I&R calls (information and referral.) But even if a case isn't opened, the report is documented in case they get additional/future calls there will be a paper trail of reports.


Not true. To what jurisdiction are you referring? Where we live, CPS is mandated by law to go out and investigate, which involves ALL members of the household AND the school.


DC - I have made plenty of reports that weren't opened.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a mandated reporter who makes 1-2 reports/week.

1. They don't tell who made the report, and in some cases it is very evident, in other cases it isn't. I have families mad at me because they think I called (I didn't, but won't disclose who did, if I know.)

2. Not all calls are investigated. Some calls get screened out. Some calls are taken as I&R calls (information and referral.) But even if a case isn't opened, the report is documented in case they get additional/future calls there will be a paper trail of reports.


Not true. To what jurisdiction are you referring? Where we live, CPS is mandated by law to go out and investigate, which involves ALL members of the household AND the school.


DC - I have made plenty of reports that weren't opened.


Okay. This is not DC I am referring to, but abutting municipalities.
Anonymous
OP, why don't you tell us where you are talking about?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a mandated reporter who makes 1-2 reports/week.

1. They don't tell who made the report, and in some cases it is very evident, in other cases it isn't. I have families mad at me because they think I called (I didn't, but won't disclose who did, if I know.)

2. Not all calls are investigated. Some calls get screened out. Some calls are taken as I&R calls (information and referral.) But even if a case isn't opened, the report is documented in case they get additional/future calls there will be a paper trail of reports.


Not true. To what jurisdiction are you referring? Where we live, CPS is mandated by law to go out and investigate, which involves ALL members of the household AND the school.


DC - I have made plenty of reports that weren't opened.


Okay. This is not DC I am referring to, but abutting municipalities.


I rarely report to VA, but PG definitely doesn't open all referrals either. Montgomery County might.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you're willing to call, you should be willing to own up to it if they find out it's you. Calling CPS is a big deal for the family you call about. So either it's something that needs to be reported, in which case you're fine putting your name to that, or it isn't, and you don't want anyone to know your name for that reason. I am a firm believer in calling if a call seems necessary but I'm also a believer in owning it if you call.


I agree with this. I think if they claims are unfounded, the person who called should be revealed. It would be too easy to use the system to damage someone's life otherwise. We have neighbors who always call the county to complain about other neighbor's "waste" in the yard (i.e., they have things in their yard that this particular person would not choose to have in their own yard). People like this are kooks with telephones and it's just too easy for them to make anonymous complaints. If a child is involved, you should be committed to letting people know who you are. I would.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I tried to report something to CPS in Montgomery County. They wanted my name and phone number which was fine with me. I decided not to report it because while they wouldn't give the parent involved my name, they would have to describe the situation in which it occurred. It would have been obvious who could have reported it. I wear a name badge and I have no idea if he noticed it, but I did not want him to have any personal information about me.

It is really tough to see something bad happen to a child and not report it because of fear of personal safety.

This was ten years ago and I still am horrified.



Frankly, I'm a little horrified that you claim to have witnesses something CPS-worthy, and yet you were afraid of a confrontation so you let it go.
Anonymous
I am not making a false claim.

I asked because I feel my own family would be in danger if it was known who called.
Anonymous
Think about the kid - do they need help? If the answer to that question is a remote yes..then you need to figure out how to report it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Think about the kid - do they need help? If the answer to that question is a remote yes..then you need to figure out how to report it.


That's why I posted for more advice and information.


Can I call the police and ask for welfare check without further information?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am not making a false claim.

I asked because I feel my own family would be in danger if it was known who called.


What is claim? And why do you feel your family would be in danger?
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