Why Are Some People Not Interested in People?

[Anonymous]

Because I'm an introvert and I really don't care to talk to you or hear you make noise.

I prefer to read a book, or do independant research on my own in a nice and quiet environment.

As as matter of fact your incessant noisemaking makes it feel like a stake is being driven through my skull.

Will you please shut that fuck up, and let the quiet prevail, damn!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You would probably perceive me as one of 'those people.' I am naturally an introvert meaning it takes a lot of effort and energy in my case to talk to people just for the sake of talking. I actually am very interested in people and have a good (small) group of friends, but if I do not know you well or do not find that we have anything in common or just plain do not like you, I likely will not make the effort to talk to you.

+1 Same here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are many reasons OP. Some of them include:

1. Some people are narcissists
2. Some people are autistic
3. Some people have asberger's syndrome
4.Some people are introverts (as others have mentioned here).
5. Some people are jerks
6. Some people are oblivious
7. Many more that I can't think of right now

And some are perfectly content minding their own business

[Anonymous]

Sorry to break it to ya OP but you are just not that interesting!

And I am just not that into you!

[Anonymous]

I like being able to do what I want and when. I enjoy being alone.

[Anonymous]

OP, there are many social misfits, sociopaths and worse. They like to call themselves "introverts".

Often, they try to assess their own EQ and attempt to justify their lack of EQ. This usually leads to them trying to allude that they have a stronger IQ than EQ. Not so. If you know anything about the subject, you know this.

This area draws many of them because they can usually only concentrate on one thing at a time, and they "immerse" themselves in "work". But really, how many of them are as "important" as they believe themselves to be

Be amused and move on. If they are lacking basic social graces, it is considered a class (not money) distinction. Historically, the lower classes are unfriendly and are lacking in these areas. Note the proverbial "pissing contest". Take it for what it is. It indeed isn't about you - be thankful! They don't know any better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

OP, there are many social misfits, sociopaths and worse. They like to call themselves "introverts".

Often, they try to assess their own EQ and attempt to justify their lack of EQ. This usually leads to them trying to allude that they have a stronger IQ than EQ. Not so. If you know anything about the subject, you know this.

This area draws many of them because they can usually only concentrate on one thing at a time, and they "immerse" themselves in "work". But really, how many of them are as "important" as they believe themselves to be

Be amused and move on. If they are lacking basic social graces, it is considered a class (not money) distinction. Historically, the lower classes are unfriendly and are lacking in these areas. Note the proverbial "pissing contest". Take it for what it is. It indeed isn't about you - be thankful! They don't know any better.

Thought the lower classes were generally more friendly than upper classes because the lower class people rely on the cooperation of others. Not so much for the upper class people.

[Anonymous]

Some people are just not curious about anything. Not intellectually curious, not interested in other places, people, etc.

I would say this is very different from being an introvert. I would also say that the self-proclaimed introverts on here are very interested in other people, and this is a great medium for them. It's possible to be interested in other people without chatting all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP, there are many social misfits, sociopaths and worse. They like to call themselves "introverts".

Often, they try to assess their own EQ and attempt to justify their lack of EQ. This usually leads to them trying to allude that they have a stronger IQ than EQ. Not so. If you know anything about the subject, you know this.

This area draws many of them because they can usually only concentrate on one thing at a time, and they "immerse" themselves in "work". But really, how many of them are as "important" as they believe themselves to be

Be amused and move on. If they are lacking basic social graces, it is considered a class (not money) distinction. Historically, the lower classes are unfriendly and are lacking in these areas. Note the proverbial "pissing contest". Take it for what it is. It indeed isn't about you - be thankful! They don't know any better.

Thought the lower classes were generally more friendly than upper classes because the lower class people rely on the cooperation of others. Not so much for the upper class people.

Nope. The upper classes have nothing to gain from others, so they speak to others in a civil and jovial manner. They have all of the power. If you meet wealthy people of all kinds - you see this behavior. Heads of state, politicians, supreme court justices, embassy officials, business owners of multi billion dollar industries - you will see this behavior consistently. They do not engage in lower class behavior.

The lower classes are angry about their station in life, so they lash out at others. Often, this results in the lower classes trying to pretend they are something they are not; in an effort to try to compensate for their short comings. I thought this was widely known?!

It is rather unfortunate, but obvious to those who have spent much of their time around wealthy people. The reason I use wealthy people as an example, is because they are taught to behave in a certain way, often by their upbringing. You can tell the fakers a mile away. I suppose something like this is difficult to explain in a town full of fakers. Have you ever seen a higher class individual make "faces", gossip or behave in a socially uncouth manner, as a regular practice? Probably not.

Sometimes, but not always, it is a matter of old money. But they do not like that term on this board. It sends them over the edge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP, there are many social misfits, sociopaths and worse. They like to call themselves "introverts".

Often, they try to assess their own EQ and attempt to justify their lack of EQ. This usually leads to them trying to allude that they have a stronger IQ than EQ. Not so. If you know anything about the subject, you know this.

This area draws many of them because they can usually only concentrate on one thing at a time, and they "immerse" themselves in "work". But really, how many of them are as "important" as they believe themselves to be

Be amused and move on. If they are lacking basic social graces, it is considered a class (not money) distinction. Historically, the lower classes are unfriendly and are lacking in these areas. Note the proverbial "pissing contest". Take it for what it is. It indeed isn't about you - be thankful! They don't know any better.

Thought the lower classes were generally more friendly than upper classes because the lower class people rely on the cooperation of others. Not so much for the upper class people.

Nope. The upper classes have nothing to gain from others, so they speak to others in a civil and jovial manner. They have all of the power. If you meet wealthy people of all kinds - you see this behavior. Heads of state, politicians, supreme court justices, embassy officials, business owners of multi billion dollar industries - you will see this behavior consistently. They do not engage in lower class behavior.

The lower classes are angry about their station in life, so they lash out at others. Often, this results in the lower classes trying to pretend they are something they are not; in an effort to try to compensate for their short comings. I thought this was widely known?!

It is rather unfortunate, but obvious to those who have spent much of their time around wealthy people. The reason I use wealthy people as an example, is because they are taught to behave in a certain way, often by their upbringing. You can tell the fakers a mile away. I suppose something like this is difficult to explain in a town full of fakers. Have you ever seen a higher class individual make "faces", gossip or behave in a socially uncouth manner, as a regular practice? Probably not.

Sometimes, but not always, it is a matter of old money. But they do not like that term on this board. It sends them over the edge.

I think you yourself have gone way past the edge and plummeted down, down, down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP, there are many social misfits, sociopaths and worse. They like to call themselves "introverts".

Often, they try to assess their own EQ and attempt to justify their lack of EQ. This usually leads to them trying to allude that they have a stronger IQ than EQ. Not so. If you know anything about the subject, you know this.

This area draws many of them because they can usually only concentrate on one thing at a time, and they "immerse" themselves in "work". But really, how many of them are as "important" as they believe themselves to be

Be amused and move on. If they are lacking basic social graces, it is considered a class (not money) distinction. Historically, the lower classes are unfriendly and are lacking in these areas. Note the proverbial "pissing contest". Take it for what it is. It indeed isn't about you - be thankful! They don't know any better.

Thought the lower classes were generally more friendly than upper classes because the lower class people rely on the cooperation of others. Not so much for the upper class people.

Nope. The upper classes have nothing to gain from others, so they speak to others in a civil and jovial manner. They have all of the power. If you meet wealthy people of all kinds - you see this behavior. Heads of state, politicians, supreme court justices, embassy officials, business owners of multi billion dollar industries - you will see this behavior consistently. They do not engage in lower class behavior.

The lower classes are angry about their station in life, so they lash out at others. Often, this results in the lower classes trying to pretend they are something they are not; in an effort to try to compensate for their short comings. I thought this was widely known?!

It is rather unfortunate, but obvious to those who have spent much of their time around wealthy people. The reason I use wealthy people as an example, is because they are taught to behave in a certain way, often by their upbringing. You can tell the fakers a mile away. I suppose something like this is difficult to explain in a town full of fakers. Have you ever seen a higher class individual make "faces", gossip or behave in a socially uncouth manner, as a regular practice? Probably not.

Sometimes, but not always, it is a matter of old money. But they do not like that term on this board. It sends them over the edge.

PP, you are !

[Anonymous]

Someone is offended by their being called out! Interesting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OP, there are many social misfits, sociopaths and worse. They like to call themselves "introverts".

Often, they try to assess their own EQ and attempt to justify their lack of EQ. This usually leads to them trying to allude that they have a stronger IQ than EQ. Not so. If you know anything about the subject, you know this.

This area draws many of them because they can usually only concentrate on one thing at a time, and they "immerse" themselves in "work". But really, how many of them are as "important" as they believe themselves to be

Be amused and move on. If they are lacking basic social graces, it is considered a class (not money) distinction. Historically, the lower classes are unfriendly and are lacking in these areas. Note the proverbial "pissing contest". Take it for what it is. It indeed isn't about you - be thankful! They don't know any better.

Thought the lower classes were generally more friendly than upper classes because the lower class people rely on the cooperation of others. Not so much for the upper class people.

Nope. The upper classes have nothing to gain from others, so they speak to others in a civil and jovial manner. They have all of the power. If you meet wealthy people of all kinds - you see this behavior. Heads of state, politicians, supreme court justices, embassy officials, business owners of multi billion dollar industries - you will see this behavior consistently. They do not engage in lower class behavior.

The lower classes are angry about their station in life, so they lash out at others. Often, this results in the lower classes trying to pretend they are something they are not; in an effort to try to compensate for their short comings. I thought this was widely known?!

It is rather unfortunate, but obvious to those who have spent much of their time around wealthy people. The reason I use wealthy people as an example, is because they are taught to behave in a certain way, often by their upbringing. You can tell the fakers a mile away. I suppose something like this is difficult to explain in a town full of fakers. Have you ever seen a higher class individual make "faces", gossip or behave in a socially uncouth manner, as a regular practice? Probably not.

Sometimes, but not always, it is a matter of old money. But they do not like that term on this board. It sends them over the edge.

I know it's only 12:15, but have you been drinking already today?

[Anonymous]

A nerve is indeed hit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A nerve is indeed hit

Does that make you happy? Are you upper class/old money?