Sexually Active Son

[Anonymous]

I have different girls coming in and out of my house every day, and I am genuinely concerned for my son. He is telling me that they are just hanging out, but I can hear what is going on. I want my son to be able to be comfortable talking to the opposite sex, but not like this. I do not know what to tell him or how to approach this.

[Anonymous]

For one condoms.
Leave them in his room

[Anonymous]

Why do you let them in?

[Anonymous]

How old? Why are you letting random girls in your house?

[Anonymous]

Do the girls know they are one of many?

[Anonymous]

Ew, another troll, I hope?

[Anonymous]

Tell him you are concerned he is going to get HIV or get someone pregnant and he needs to be more careful .

[Anonymous]

Is he 14 or 30?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For one condoms.
Leave them in his room

I assume he is already using those, that is not the worry it is the fact that he is doing it in the first place.

[Anonymous]

This can’t be real. Who is opening the door and letting them in? Where are you when this is happening? Bound and gagged to the dining room chair? Parent up if this is real and manage your house. Your house, your child, your rules.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do the girls know they are one of many?

I would hope so, I do not think he makes an effort to hide anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is he 14 or 30?

Or 7? Exactly!!? Why is this posted under general parenting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is he 14 or 30?

He is 17 for those wondering.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For one condoms.
Leave them in his room

I assume he is already using those, that is not the worry it is the fact that he is doing it in the first place.

Assume?!? Not good enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For one condoms.
Leave them in his room

I assume he is already using those, that is not the worry it is the fact that he is doing it in the first place.

Pretty big assumption.

1) give him condoms, and 2) have a conversation with him about respect. Having sex in the basement with other people around, especially your mother, is not respectful. He needs to understand boundaries. But for him to understand boundaries, you are going to have to set them.