Chronic disorganization--can be a type of hoarding behavior
ADHD Lazy My father was like this. Piles of papers, messy desk and car. He was a very successful surgeon. He had my organized, neat mom, medical assistants and hospital staff to help him. He seemed to have OCD and ADHD. Could concentrate like crazy but would check the doors, lights, ruminate, couldn't sit still, lots of energy. |
This can be a good solution. |
this too |
Fascinating how you posted ONE SECOND after the OP post. Simply fascinating. |
Actually 4 posts within 3 seconds of the OP. Fascinating indeed. |
Is this the same as “the town idiot?” |
Schedule him to get a neuropsych eval and make it happen. Is it treatable? Find out. |
Sounds a bit like my DH. He is definitely ADHD. He is also a very successful medical doctor and I love him so much. As long as my emotional and physical needs are met, he can do what he wants in his time off. |
To be fair what you value at 24 is way different than when you are 34 or older. |
NP. When the timestamp goes from 16:23 to 16:24, that's one minute, not one second. It could even be almost two minutes, if OP posted at 16.23 and one second, and a response came in at 16.24 and 59 seconds. |
40 years over here. It's a combo of ADD and a little spectrum it seems. He tries though, and has shown improvement, but only for me. |
I didn’t really feel this way. At 23 I valued: That my husband had good relationships with friends and family That he was focused on his career but in a healthy way That we were aligned spiritually and the same religion That his parents seemed to have an equal relationship That he was fun and funny and we had a lot of chemistry At 33 I valued pretty much the same things. He has negatives same as any other person but we also grew together all those years. When you marry young you also influence the person your spouse becomes. |
Ack, my 15 yo is your husband. |
The second post (the one you quoted) came one minute after the OP post, not one second. |
What does he do for work? |