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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am very proud of you, too - you did the right thing.  DCUM is never in agreement on anything - even the one nanny-troll had nothing to say in defense of your employer!

First, let me say that the things your MB did and said were meant to hurt you - of course she still trusts you with her children.  She was just getting in her immature and irrational digs when she had the chance.  By Tuesday, she will know what a horse's ass she was.

Second, this is the woman you have worked for for two years - she did not change in this last week.  You just never saw her in this position before. I think she knows she was wrong but just could not dare to face it or admit it.  But this is the same woman you have been working for for two years and this bad/dangerous situation happened once - it would happen again.  She will get around to reading your letter.  I am very glad you wrote it.  Your MB's pride got the better of her.  She will be sorry.

Third, every nanny on this forum knows the intense pain of leaving a charge.  I have rarely felt pain quite like it.  And I am so very sorry, OP.  There is no getting around the pain and tears - you just have to go thru it.  I know.  I know.  Every nanny knows.  It is hard to believe that you will ever love a new charge as much - but you will.

Fourth, make sure your agency gets every penny due you or take the bitch to court.  I am serious.

Fifth, be proud of yourself - you took care of yourself and handled everything in a professional and calm manner.  You knew what you had to do and you did it - that is no easy task when the love of children is involved.

I wish you the very, very best.  Please stay in touch with us - we are pulling for you.  It will be a crappy, tear-filled weekend for you but Monday will feel better.  I promise.  [/quote]

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