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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just something to think about: when you are interviewed by your next family options they will likely ask what went wrong with your first match and what efforts you took to proactively address them before you decided to rematch. Since you have only been with your family a few weeks you might have a difficult time adequately addressing this point. This is the type of immature drama I was referencing above. Your first conversation with your lcc was not about how to address the childcare issued but about rematching.

You just don't sound like the self starting, mature, communicative, independent type that it takes to be successful in this program. [/quote]

Try living abroad in someone's house where you don't feel comfortable, have a kid kick you whenever he can and calling you names, with nowhere else to go but Borders late at night and we'll see how you manage!
I'm only 21 ! It's easy to react the way you do if you are a mom and are used to the au pair world.
I'm trying hard but at some point I loose my motivation.[/quote]

I wasn't saying some of your concerns aren't valid. I'm saying your responsive actions (rematching without working within the program structure) don't demonstrate qualities that will allow you to succeed.[/quote]

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