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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here yes that’s true I wanted advice . But, every one advice was different then my own experience. I welcome extra help if I am going to hire nanny for my child. My child is going to get love and attention from two nannies. I really don’t know how nannies have enough time to reply all my posts. My posts are just few lines but I got long ( judgment) replies. It was so funny when my previous MB read all judgementals replies. She didn’t believe it how folks could be negative like that. She is American . She believes all Americans are not same. I am sure who replied my posts are not Americans. But they are the once who follow Americans culture more then Americans just to show how much they are Americanize[/quote] In other words - you didn’t want advice- you just wanted people to agree with you and they didn’t . If you told me that your mom was visiting but not capable of being alone, I would assume that meant your mom had some type of cognitive issue and that would worry me. You paint a picture of your mother as someone who is not mentally capable of taking care of herself. Maybe that’s not the case but that’s what it sounds like from reading your posts. At 57, if mentally ok, your mom should be more than able to figure out how to occupy herself during the day. I do not think your current employer is as happy as much as you think. If they were, they would have found a way to keep you when their child went to school. If I had to guess, it’s the money they are paying couples with all the crazy requests from you and they are fed up now. They will likely talk you up very highly to their friends you are interviewing with bc they just want to be done and have you move on. Do yourself a favor. Go back and read through some of the posts that MBs posted and instead of arguing, believe them. Accept that their opinion is real and is one you will encounter in the future. Just because someone doesn’t agree with you doesn’t make them wrong.[/quote]
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