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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In the current arrangement, your AP has zero reason to pull it together. You work from home, your nanny is still working, it sounds like your 2 year old goes to daycare or nanny is in charge (you wrote AP is only working early morning and a few mornings, so where is 2 year old the rest of the day?). The nanny or you drive AP around when she needs/wants to leave the house. What a pain for your nanny who probably feels like she is now responsible for a 4th child.

Anyway, until you turn this over to your AP, I imagine she will remain stuck. Most of us wouldn’t be able to even be at this point 2 months into a 12 month program. Most of us need AP up and running full swing within a few days of her arrival.

In my opinion, until you insist that she drives and let go of your nanny and perhaps even “go to the office” (even if that means a coffee shop), your AP will confine in this 4th child role. Unfortunately it sounds like your current set up has enabled an already immature AP.[/quote]

I do go to an office, in my home, shut the door and work for up to ten hours a day. 
I interact with clients and produce a lot of materials that require concentration.
I’m not sitting on the couch eating bonbons or available to watch or pick up my kids. 
My nanny is a professional and has been a great asset for years, even for the last two months as she’s taken on a new charge [/quote]

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