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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was a weekend nanny for two years and always ran into other weekend nannies!  I have no clue why this one poster is being such a weirdo about it.

OP, give it more time with your current nanny. Remember that his former nanny has been in his life from his earliest memory and he has never had anyone leave him before.  It is sweet of the former nanny to visit, btw.  Anyway, he can now remember a time before his new nanny.  Just give it more time. [/quote]

It's not normal to have a weekend nanny when one parent doesn't work on the weekends. It's very selfish but I'm sure op is long gone. She stays with him because he pays the bills and her charity is there to distract her from getting depressed. I know because I've nannied for crazy families like this. [/quote]

Wow, you're a nanny and you're judging families who have nannies?  I certainly hope no one I ever know hires you.  You are awful.[/quote]

It's part of the job. When a parent is neglectful yes I am judging. It's not natural for children to be away from their father everyday of the week. You can defend OP all you want but parents who choose to be away from their children all week are selfish. A nanny can not replace a parents love. Op said her dh needs to go to these events so we know he's not working. And what sort of nonprofit has 3 events every weekend. This is excessive. [/quote]

So how do you feel about all of those who serve in our armed forces, who are away from their children [b]every day[/b] (fixed that for you) of the week when they're deployed?  Effectively they chose that career, or do you have some sort of exception for people you like versus those you don't?  You don't know anything OP - maybe her husband has to go to the events because he's working at them.  And what exactly do you know about nonprofits?  You better check yourself and stay in your lane. [/quote]

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