Anonymous
01/25/2018 15:16
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Well, well, well. OP has not returned to answer the question. She is obviously a troll
Why would she want to come back? All you disgusting people did was shame her.
Anonymous
01/25/2018 15:15
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. I run a nonprofit charity and weekends are always busy with events. I am home with my child five days a week and we pay our weekend nanny very well ($28 plus overtime).
Thanks to the two posters who actually answered my question.
Why did you say you're a sahm? Troll.
Oh, stop! I am A SAHM Monday thru Friday but have to be gone a lot on weekends for my nonprofit. I am sorry I confused you.
And your husband has to golf all weekend? Why did you even have kids?
OP here. DH works with me and has to attend functions with me.
Your bitter mommies are tiresome at best.
You're neglecting your children. This is really sad. Again why did you have children?
WTF? She spends more time w/ her kid than most non-SAH parents if she's home ALL DAY AND NIGHT 5 DAYS A WEEK. 3 year olds don't care about week v weekend. Think of it as an RN who works back to back overnights on Monday and Tuesdays if it makes you feel better. Same deal.
Anonymous
01/25/2018 11:47
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Well, well, well. OP has not returned to answer the question. She is obviously a troll
Anonymous
01/24/2018 14:17
Subject: Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:OP why doesn't your dh spend more time with your son? His willingness to give time to him sends a message: He is important. A father who gives of himself implicitly communicates his love and respect for his child. And if you, the person your child respects most in the world, believe he is worthy of your undivided attention, your child will bask in the sense of his own importance.
Perhaps I need not mention the obvious: There is nothing more valuable for our psychological well-being than healthy self-esteem. You can help provide that for your child. And when your child grows up, you will relish the pride you feel and savor the knowledge that you had a hand in cultivating the person she has become.
How do you know how much time OP's husband spends with his son? You don't. You have no idea. But you're enjoying thinking you're somehow superior to OP because you think you know something about someone else's life.
Anonymous
01/24/2018 14:15
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was a weekend nanny for two years and always ran into other weekend nannies! I have no clue why this one poster is being such a weirdo about it.
OP, give it more time with your current nanny. Remember that his former nanny has been in his life from his earliest memory and he has never had anyone leave him before. It is sweet of the former nanny to visit, btw. Anyway, he can now remember a time before his new nanny. Just give it more time.
It's not normal to have a weekend nanny when one parent doesn't work on the weekends. It's very selfish but I'm sure op is long gone. She stays with him because he pays the bills and her charity is there to distract her from getting depressed. I know because I've nannied for crazy families like this.
Wow, you're a nanny and you're judging families who have nannies? I certainly hope no one I ever know hires you. You are awful.
It's part of the job. When a parent is neglectful yes I am judging. It's not natural for children to be away from their father everyday of the week. You can defend OP all you want but parents who choose to be away from their children all week are selfish. A nanny can not replace a parents love. Op said her dh needs to go to these events so we know he's not working. And what sort of nonprofit has 3 events every weekend. This is excessive.
So how do you feel about all of those who serve in our armed forces, who are away from their children every day (fixed that for you) of the week when they're deployed? Effectively they chose that career, or do you have some sort of exception for people you like versus those you don't? You don't know anything OP - maybe her husband has to go to the events because he's working at them. And what exactly do you know about nonprofits? You better check yourself and stay in your lane.
Anonymous
01/24/2018 13:52
Subject: Not Bonding with New Nanny
OP why doesn't your dh spend more time with your son? His willingness to give time to him sends a message: He is important. A father who gives of himself implicitly communicates his love and respect for his child. And if you, the person your child respects most in the world, believe he is worthy of your undivided attention, your child will bask in the sense of his own importance.
Perhaps I need not mention the obvious: There is nothing more valuable for our psychological well-being than healthy self-esteem. You can help provide that for your child. And when your child grows up, you will relish the pride you feel and savor the knowledge that you had a hand in cultivating the person she has become.
Perhaps I need not mention the obvious: There is nothing more valuable for our psychological well-being than healthy self-esteem. You can help provide that for your child. And when your child grows up, you will relish the pride you feel and savor the knowledge that you had a hand in cultivating the person she has become.
Anonymous
01/24/2018 13:47
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was a weekend nanny for two years and always ran into other weekend nannies! I have no clue why this one poster is being such a weirdo about it.
OP, give it more time with your current nanny. Remember that his former nanny has been in his life from his earliest memory and he has never had anyone leave him before. It is sweet of the former nanny to visit, btw. Anyway, he can now remember a time before his new nanny. Just give it more time.
It's not normal to have a weekend nanny when one parent doesn't work on the weekends. It's very selfish but I'm sure op is long gone. She stays with him because he pays the bills and her charity is there to distract her from getting depressed. I know because I've nannied for crazy families like this.
Wow, you're a nanny and you're judging families who have nannies? I certainly hope no one I ever know hires you. You are awful.
It's part of the job. When a parent is neglectful yes I am judging. It's not natural for children to be away from their father everyday of the week. You can defend OP all you want but parents who choose to be away from their children all week are selfish. A nanny can not replace a parents love. Op said her dh needs to go to these events so we know he's not working. And what sort of nonprofit has 3 events every weekend. This is excessive.
Anonymous
01/24/2018 13:18
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was a weekend nanny for two years and always ran into other weekend nannies! I have no clue why this one poster is being such a weirdo about it.
OP, give it more time with your current nanny. Remember that his former nanny has been in his life from his earliest memory and he has never had anyone leave him before. It is sweet of the former nanny to visit, btw. Anyway, he can now remember a time before his new nanny. Just give it more time.
It's not normal to have a weekend nanny when one parent doesn't work on the weekends. It's very selfish but I'm sure op is long gone. She stays with him because he pays the bills and her charity is there to distract her from getting depressed. I know because I've nannied for crazy families like this.
Wow, you're a nanny and you're judging families who have nannies? I certainly hope no one I ever know hires you. You are awful.
Anonymous
01/24/2018 13:16
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. I run a nonprofit charity and weekends are always busy with events. I am home with my child five days a week and we pay our weekend nanny very well ($28 plus overtime).
Thanks to the two posters who actually answered my question.
Why did you say you're a sahm? Troll.
Oh, stop! I am A SAHM Monday thru Friday but have to be gone a lot on weekends for my nonprofit. I am sorry I confused you.
And your husband has to golf all weekend? Why did you even have kids?
OP here. DH works with me and has to attend functions with me.
Your bitter mommies are tiresome at best.
You're neglecting your children. This is really sad. Again why did you have children?
Not OP, but GO AWAY. What are you even doing on a nanny forum if you think anyone who has a nanny is neglectful. Seriously, go crawl back under your rock. No one is interested in your opinion.
Anonymous
01/24/2018 13:14
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. I run a nonprofit charity and weekends are always busy with events. I am home with my child five days a week and we pay our weekend nanny very well ($28 plus overtime).
Thanks to the two posters who actually answered my question.
Why did you say you're a sahm? Troll.
Oh, stop! I am A SAHM Monday thru Friday but have to be gone a lot on weekends for my nonprofit. I am sorry I confused you.
And your husband has to golf all weekend? Why did you even have kids?
OP here. DH works with me and has to attend functions with me.
Your bitter mommies are tiresome at best.
Seriously. OP runs a freaking non profit and you people want to jump down her throat? By the way, all your nasty comments prove is that you're jealous of OP. And the more you say you're not, the more it proves you are. Go back to your sad, judgmental lives.
Anonymous
01/23/2018 23:14
Subject: Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Spend time with your kids.
Sweetie, go spend time with your own children and stop embarrassing yourself.
Anonymous
01/23/2018 23:12
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry dh and your child. Dh works all week then is dragged to your nonprofit charity events at the weekend. I am sure he would rather be home with his son instead. Judging by your responses to these posts. He is too scared to say no to you. I am sure your son would love to have daddy home on the weekends with him.
The previous nanny should be not be visiting your son as much. So he can get used to the new nanny and bond with her. I am sure its hard ob your nnew nanny when the old one keeps coming by. Its also confusing to your son.
I find these people that run charities are so self centered. Its all about them and people are expected to worship them because they run a nonprofit charity.
Stop being selfish and let hubby stay home on the weekends to have quality time with your sn.
+1
He NEEDS bonding time with his dad not a nanny.
You have no clue what the child needs or if the father is home with him and the mother all week. I nannies for a couple that made their money, retired and then had kids.
You two are really angry and overly invested in this particular thread. Look at that.
This!
Anonymous
01/23/2018 23:11
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry dh and your child. Dh works all week then is dragged to your nonprofit charity events at the weekend. I am sure he would rather be home with his son instead. Judging by your responses to these posts. He is too scared to say no to you. I am sure your son would love to have daddy home on the weekends with him.
The previous nanny should be not be visiting your son as much. So he can get used to the new nanny and bond with her. I am sure its hard ob your nnew nanny when the old one keeps coming by. Its also confusing to your son.
I find these people that run charities are so self centered. Its all about them and people are expected to worship them because they run a nonprofit charity.
Stop being selfish and let hubby stay home on the weekends to have quality time with your sn.
+1
They're the worst kind of people usually.
You two need serious psychological help. Why in the world are you so upset about this OP?
Anonymous
01/23/2018 21:19
Subject: Re:Not Bonding with New Nanny
Anonymous wrote:I feel sorry dh and your child. Dh works all week then is dragged to your nonprofit charity events at the weekend. I am sure he would rather be home with his son instead. Judging by your responses to these posts. He is too scared to say no to you. I am sure your son would love to have daddy home on the weekends with him.
The previous nanny should be not be visiting your son as much. So he can get used to the new nanny and bond with her. I am sure its hard ob your nnew nanny when the old one keeps coming by. Its also confusing to your son.
I find these people that run charities are so self centered. Its all about them and people are expected to worship them because they run a nonprofit charity.
Stop being selfish and let hubby stay home on the weekends to have quality time with your sn.
+1
They're the worst kind of people usually.
Anonymous
01/23/2018 20:24
Subject: Not Bonding with New Nanny
What it matters your kids are safe. Keep the nanny if your fine. Kids are fine, is good to remember people that were part of thier lives.