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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't imagine ever telling a boss no. In all my 15 years I'm pretty sure I've never said no to a favor.[/quote]

How often does she ask?  That is the issue here.  [/quote]
I think for me I don't see them as favors more like my job. I get texts a few times a week to pick up dry cleaning, go to target to get xy and z. Or mail something at the post office. Pick up a starbucks gift card for someone. I don get asked to switch days but I get my start and stop time switched randomly and it just doesn't bother me that much. Like I said for me it's just my job.[/quote]

OP here and none of that stuff is a part of my job (otherwise I wouldn't call the requests "favors").  I do everything directly related to my charges and anything for them.  The "favors" are added on, usually at the last minute.

Again, my point is not that I cannot say "no" or that my employers don't accept "no" -- my point is that I HATE to have to say "no", I hate seeing MB so concerned when I say "no" and I have started resenting even being asked.   [/quote]
I guess I just think of going to the post office, hardware store, picking up dry cleaning as every nannies job unless your nf doesn't allow you to drive with their children. I view myself as a nanny who tries everyday to make my nf's life easier. If I go to the post office and pick up the dry cleaning on the way home from the park i have helped out mb and that makes me feel good and I know they appreciate me.[/quote]

Again, that is part of your job - not part of mine.  Again, that is why my employers and I think of those things as "favors".

I don't understand why you are being so obtuse, PP.

If you and your employers think you should do those things - great!   Mine don't and I don't.  Think of something that you would consider a [b]favor[/b] and think about being asked to do that thing at least once a week.  Then post back.  [/quote]
I never knew these would be apart of my job until mb asked me. It was never discussed or put into my contract. But I am happy do as I'm asked. I guess I'm just a helpful person.[/quote]

Please stop, PP - you are embarrassing yourself at this point.  Please.  [/quote]
The only people who should be embarrassed are the ones who have the nerve to ever even think of saying no to your employers. If I was an employer and an employee had the nerve to say no to me oh the hell they would pay. I would destroy them.[/quote]

This is 2015. Employer =/= owner. An employee can refuse whatever the hell they want, and your only recourse would be to fire them. The fact that you even think you have as much as you think you do is incredibly disturbing. [/quote]
I can lock up and torture whom ever I want. They would never see the light of day again.[/quote]

Oh, great, the crazy basement dweller is back.  [/quote]

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