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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve learned that, no matter how your family system is set up, clear communication is key. The specifics—whether it’s $75 or $200 a week, or unlimited berries—don’t matter. What’s important is clearly explaining how things work in your home. You need to manage your au pair and set expectations because being clear is being kind. Take time to think about what you want and communicate it directly. It’s your home, and you’re in charge—take ownership of that. For example, if she eats the vegetables from dinner without asking, let her know that those were intended for the meal and that you need to discuss how to avoid this in the future. The first time it happens, it’s understandable—she may not have known. But if it continues after you've clearly explained the situation, then it's a different issue. So, take time to think about what works best for you—and remember, you can always change your mind. As you learn and adapt, feel free to adjust your approach. After all, when we know better, we do better.[/quote]
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