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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. Re-reading my post (apologies for typos I’m on my phone) - to clarify, the au pairs friends took her out on her last night, not my husband! I really appreciate everyone’s thoughts. In the end, because I was increasingly concerned about her mental state, I decided the best thing for me was to keep things calm and maintain the status quo. She worked very few hours which I framed as giving her time to pack/say her goodbyes/etc., as opposed to the truth, I.e., that I didn’t want her around my kids. I certainly hope she understands she will not get a reference from us. I have absolutely no interest in remaining in contact with her. [/quote]
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