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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone should take a deep breath! PPs are reacting as if OP asked AP to sleep in a room with no window or heating! This is totally normal in many cultures and if the AP is from South America for example, she will probably understand this better than a European AP.
Op, talk to your AP and go from there, your house your rules![/quote]

Exactly. I once had a (very mediocre) AP give us a hard time when our new AP was arriving. She had originally offered to sleep in the guest room, and let the new AP sleep in the AP room.  THen when we brought it up, she said she no longer feels comfortable with that and she is worried about her privacy.  We told the outgoing AP that she is not the only one giving up privacy--and that having 4 adults in the home impacts all of our privacy.  We ultimately let things stay as they were because DH and I decided that we would much rather have the new AP in the guest room on our level with us for a few days than the outgoing AP.

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